‘My husband refuses to pay my student loans.’ I took out the loans before we were together.

[sayyestothis]

That's your choice. Dude's choice was to not pay her debt she willingly took out. That doesnt make him a clown. If a woman wants to be a stay at home wife why the the fukk is she taking out massive debt in the first place?

It does tho. This isn't some random broad...take care of your household...how can he not see its HIS debts too. Yall married...

 

[Jekyll]

I didn’t read the story but if he is well off, why not just throw all your income into paying the loans off while he holds the house down? I guess that would be too much like work when you can go the teenager route and just have somebody pay your debts for you.

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

It does tho. This isn't some random broad...take care of your household...how can he not see its HIS debts too. Yall married...

Or bytch can utilize the degree she worked for and use it. . Stop infantilizing grown ass women

 

[Pete Wrigley]

Yeah but has she actually asked you to? And if she did, what would you say then?

She hasn't asked and I wouldn't since it was her debt prior to our marriage. Now if circumstances changed and she isn't able to work for some reason, then yeah.

Everyone has a different situation but my wife is doing great financially so, we're lucky

 

[EffYou]

Or bytch can utilize the degree she worked for and use it. . Stop infantilizing grown ass women

Lol expect society to hold women responsible for anything bruhs...

 

[EffYou]

It does tho. This isn't some random broad...take care of your household...how can he not see its HIS debts too. Yall married...

It’s her debt she needs to pay that shyt

 

[Bossino]

Lol expect society to hold women responsible for anything bruhs...

Unaccountable people are the most dangerous/risky to deal with in the short, but especially the long term. If you never feel consequence, you can't even consider it. It doens't exist to you, so you'd be prone to bad decision making and making the same poor decisions in perpetuity. This is why most women by defintion are worth it

 

[MJ Truth]

She hasn't asked and I wouldn't since it was her debt prior to our marriage. Now if circumstances changed and she isn't able to work for some reason, then yeah.

Everyone has a different situation but my wife is doing great financially so, we're lucky

So then basically you’re bragging about not paying for it for nothing lol, your situation is nothing like the husband’s in the OP.

 

[Geode]

Delusional

 

[Commish]

One of the main issues I see in this situation is that this couple seem to have some major communication issues.

Finances MUST be discussed in great detail prior to marriage. Everyone needs to be fully honest about their financial status as well.

I don't think that the husband should pay for his wife's student loans, but he also shouldn't have married her if he knew that she had no intention of paying her debts. Also, the wife shouldn't have taken out loans that she had no intention of paying.

It could be said that she may have had intentions on paying, but her not being gainfully employed for years sway me not to believe that her intentions were genuine.

Seems like she will end up defaulting on the loan and the husband will suffer the consequences regardless..

They need to work it out or divorce...

 

[ORDER_66]

Broke bytch.

 

[Peter Popoff]

Lmao. Why yall mad that I support my wife and her debts? This is marriage. I been married for 15 years. I would put anything above her, maybe that's how we still happily married tho...yall miserable?

I mean..... I'm not mad that you have her last name and her father calls you blouses. Black love is dope my nikka!

 

[EffYou]

Reverse the scenario and watch the articles on
Hobosexual adjacent
Men ain’t shyt
A woman’s money is not to be spent in a relationship
All kinds of fukkery would ensue

“He’s not a real man”


How come you never hear “she’s not a real woman” lmao backwards ass bytches and society fukk these broke, entitled, bum bytches

 

[mamba]

Question: I am married but unemployed, and my husband refuses to pay my student loans, which I had before we were dating. Do I have access to the money? Yes. But if I were to touch it, it could cause a divorce because he feels that it’s not his responsibility, as we were not together at the time I acquired the student loans. Is there any way to get out of it? Or is there some type of loophole? I haven’t worked in years. I don’t even know how I would repay these back on my own.

My response:

 

[AAKing23]

I wish we could drop these bytches in a 3rd world country to see how good they got it