My lady canceled our cruise based on a text and ain't talking to me rant

[skeetsinternal]

I already told her I took one cruise and didn't like it because I was in a small cabin, i didn't like being on a boat, all the stops, nothing to do but eat and shyt,and this African athletic director wanting to fight me for dunking on him in front of pawgs. So today we texting and she talking about how excited she is to plan the trip and she is going to plan it so I enjoy the cruise. I let her know I'm super excited about this trip together . In the text I reiterated my experience from the first cruise in a past relationship by adding the fact I didn't like interacting with people I ain't never seeing again in my life and the herding of passengers back to the boat and I said "moo moo" . I let her know that was my experience on that one trip with an ex. She stated what she liked about cruises and said we can do an island instead. I then said compared to my last experience with a cruise I would prefer an island where I can focus on one thing, wake up and go to the gym, run and not have to be herded. I was making light of the past experience but she didn't see it that way. She then said she prefer a cruise to interact with people and see different ports. I once again told her I'm looking forward to this trip together and this is a new venture for us which I will sure to love based on how we are together.Somewhere she took my statements about my past trip as being how I will feel about our trip together. She said fukk it, no cruise no island. We can do road trips and she will do cruises with her friends. After work I go by her condo cause I'm sleeping over tonight and try to let he know she got it all wrong and my texts were misinterpreted. She on her period but said she ain't feeling me cause of how I spoke to her thru the texts. I'm like I'm in front of you right now telling you what it is and I'm good with a cruise and our experience is going to be different. She said she gonna lie down in her bedroom giving me the silent treatment and I'm on this couch browsing the coli on this iPad and watching Hells Kitchen. So although I explain what I meant in person she still going by what she interpreted in the text. She got till 11pm to snap out this funk.

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

 

[Colicat]

What's to misinterpret? You hate cruises, she loves them... Why force it...

You want one island, she wants many... Why force it....

Choose something you both want to do and won't end up resentful afterwards...

And cruises are wack

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Which chick is this

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

You said she got her period, so you just gon' have to wait.

I personally don't like I cruises either, like you I'd rather go to an island and chill.

 

[Strapped]

Don't go skeets you'll ruined that relationship

 

[Nino Brown]

That's a lot of text my dude, have you tried discussing it with her in this amount of detail before spilling your guts on the coli?

 

[skeetsinternal]

What's to misinterpret? You hate cruises, she loves them... Why force it...

You want one island, she wants many... Why force it....

Choose something you both want to do and won't end up resentful afterwards...

And cruises are wack

I hate cruises based on that one cruise I took with an ex that was a bytch. She said she would get a cabin that's larger, with a balcony, keep me away from the courts and other treats to make sure I'm loving a cruise from now on. I was glad to hear that shyt . She missed that point that I'm open to seeing how this cruise would be.

 

[blackdahlia]

This sounds like a convo that shouldn't have taken place via text.

Give her space and talk about it later.

 

[skeetsinternal]

That's a lot of text my dude, have you tried discussing it with her in this amount of detail before spilling your guts on the coli?

Yea, I sat her down but the text impacted her whole day and demeanor. She said I was rude and I spoke to her harshly. I did no such thing but made light of my experience on the first cruise by basically sharing how I felt about the first cruise

 

[Ezigbo Nwanyi]

nikka when you not in the dog house

 

[KravenMorehead™]

You skeetin internally tonight muahahaa

 

[skeetsinternal]

This sounds like a convo that shouldn't have taken place via text.

Give her space and talk about it later.

I am giving her her space. She did ask for some time and mentioned her period being a factor but I'm like @this minor shyt being such a big issue

 

[Scientific Playa]

She said fukk it, no cruise no island. We can do road trips and she will do cruises with her friends. She got till 11pm to snap out this funk.

you already know what u gotta do mane. them liberated independent chicks are tough to mold.

 

[dynamik]

You were throwing a passive aggressive tantrum. Especially mentioning your old relationship and the experience you had in it. You're essentially making her pay for a horrible experience that you had with another woman. Sometimes you have to just suck it up and make the best of it. Especially since she went through the trouble of booking it and was excited about it. It's not always about your feelings. Serious question, was your mom and your Dad together?