My man tries keeping it real when he's picking up biddies

[Turbulent]

honesty is the best policy.

but being honest doesn't mean you can't be tactful.

 

[XII]

Isn't this the nikka who stole all Patrice's jokes for Youtube views and threw a hissy fit when he got called out on it?

 

[Abstract83]

Y'all don't even have to lie. Let me break it down from a female's perspective.

Just think about it like this. Do you know how many men express interest to an attractive woman on a regular basis? What makes you so special that she chooses you? Kain didn't even put in any effort.

It's a competition, just like in nature.

Plus, there's a time and place for everything. Kain walking up on random chicks minding their own business are not gonna be open to that kind of advances. But, if you're in the right environment and the girl is in a more receptive mood, it might happen.

You gotta eliminate reasons she might say no. Most women don't want to come off as a hoe.
1. Make her feel comfortable with you. Flirt, compliment, ask about her, tell her about yourself. Just be casual at first.
2. Keep it private. Keep it on the low. Pull her to the side before you ask. If you know she's comfortable, being with you one on one you have a better chance. Maybe get her number and text her depending on your time frame.
3. Make it convenient. Have a game plan. At a party, where you can easily find a room or a place to sneak off. Ask her to chill at your crib. Let her know you got you're own transportation and/or crib.

Kain put the females on the defensive by choosing the wrong location. He had no game plan and he was bold, loud and public with it.

ETA: the amount of effort required depends on the girl. Some chicks are on expert mode, some are easy.

This is what i posted in the other thread.


I think it depends on the type of women u approach. The free spirited ones might give in. But I think most women want u to be respectful when tryna get some a$$. If they're attracted instantly u just gotta slick talk then into giving them what they want already. And by slick talk I mean confidence not manipulation or being disrespectful. She wants u to work for what u want. Instead of just giving it away there's no challenge/excitement. Disney/romantic flicks trained them. But if u got money, fame, or u give off that vibe that u already get p*ssy or ur a catch some how u dont have to do much. Just don't fukk up the chemistry by saying or doing something stupid. For the average chick she might want a good listener that's not too arrogant but assertive when going after what they want. Just my guess from experience

 

[Roid Jones]

Even Stefan Urquelle would not be able to pull this off

 

[SNG]

There's levels to this shyt this if this nikka rolled up in a lambourghini or ferrari with a wade of stacks sitting in the passenger seat and caught these bytches on the street in broad day light and no one was around and he asked this same question the results could of been alot different.

 

[Demon]

Y'all don't even have to lie. Let me break it down from a female's perspective.

Just think about it like this. Do you know how many men express interest to an attractive woman on a regular basis? What makes you so special that she chooses you? Kain didn't even put in any effort.

It's a competition, just like in nature.

Plus, there's a time and place for everything. Kain walking up on random chicks minding their own business are not gonna be open to that kind of advances. But, if you're in the right environment and the girl is in a more receptive mood, it might happen.

You gotta eliminate reasons she might say no. Most women don't want to come off as a hoe.
1. Make her feel comfortable with you. Flirt, compliment, ask about her, tell her about yourself. Just be casual at first.
2. Keep it private. Keep it on the low. Pull her to the side before you ask. If you know she's comfortable, being with you one on one you have a better chance. Maybe get her number and text her depending on your time frame.
3. Make it convenient. Have a game plan. At a party, where you can easily find a room or a place to sneak off. Ask her to chill at your crib. Let her know you got you're own transportation and/or crib.

Kain put the females on the defensive by choosing the wrong location. He had no game plan and he was bold, loud and public with it.

ETA: the amount of effort required depends on the girl. Some chicks are on expert mode, some are easy.

Can I fukk you?

 

[philmonroe]

Don't get me wrong I believe he was classless ,in fact if female asked me what he did,I would think she was dodgy ,, but if I went around punching everyone in the mouth who ever offended me, I would be in a psycho ward or prison right now. He was acting like a buffoon I think to prove a point, but he said this to that female in a public place, where people were milling around . he was not behaving in a threatening way, rude yes, and I think a 'fukk off' wouldn't go amiss, but I don't believe he deserved a punch in the mouth no.

I have experienced myself guys using very silly chat up lines and getting drinks thrown over them for it,some females behave very badly and it is unladylike to go around punching anyone in the mouth. A lady would have asked for assistance from a security guard or a shop worker, and there were no doubt plenty around if she felt threatened or just ignored him.

And yes if someone spoke like that to my mother or girlfriend I would not be happy at all,but I am not talking about males defending females they care about here,but whether it is right to assault someone when you are offended by them.

You trying to make it about a hit when it should be about dude. Most people on here if a white person called them a nikka would strike that person would you use that same logic? They didn't behave in a threatening way so should a "fukk off" suffice or is it just when some of you entitled cats feel every chick should just drop drawls for you cause you showed up? Again if dude wasn't saying shyt that normally gets you touched he wouldn't get touched. FOH that white people okie doke logic. Chances are dude wouldn't walk up to dudes being "real" calling them bytches or something like that that would get his brain relocated. I just like how some guys will tell chicks that are for the most part physically weaker than them anything and they should have no reaction but don't try the same shyt with people that are on their same level or stronger.

You say he was behaving in a threatening way, but in all reality, he sounded like a fukking rapist.

"Hey, you're cute... I want to fukk you."

I could see a female becoming extremely defensive to the shyt. In no way am I an advocate of women hitting men just because they feel like it, but he had her in an empty ass part of the mall and was telling her he wanted to fukk her. That shyt is outrageous. He deserved to get popped in the mouth.

I don't co sign chicks popping dudes either but lets also keep it funky I guarantee the avg dude isn't just "keeping it real" when its a dude instead of a girl in public. They know dude might beat them the fukk up so why not use the same mentality with chicks? Cats be on some oh she don't want the truth FOH ain't nobody that damn truthful that isn't crazy with a person they don't know.

honesty is the best policy.

but being honest doesn't mean you can't be tactful.

This. I know why some dudes don't get it but they should know its also telling on themselves by admitting so through their words/actions.