My Mother asked me for $500

Rice'N Beckford

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Every couple months my mother calls me up frantically with sone bs story about "going to court" if she doesnt pay a bill and ask me for money 100-700 bucks :stopitslime:... she been doing this for atleast 2 yrs... I sometimes give her the bread and majority of the time I dont and she uses my account to wire money from a relative or someone else so my pops dont see the transaction. On some shady shyt.

My mother is fukked in the head and has/is battling a gambling addiction :wow: for atleast 6 yrs.

I tell her I got bills. Cant keep bailing her out and im too old to be doing this shady shyt. My pops is soon gonna prob seperate from her:ehh: after 3 decades.

Didnt know those "Dont tell ya father we're going to the casino to play slots" trips when I was in middle school were turning her into a monsters brehs:sadcam:.



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Instead of maki g threads why dont you try helping her with her addiction? Get your pops.involved
 

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You may need to hold an intervention and she should seek treatment for her addiction

At some point you have to decide not to enable. ...

I'm sorry you're going through this....it's something people underestimate the seriousness of. My aunts neighbors lost their paid off home and jobs due to excessive gambling and enabling one another
 

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Instead of maki g threads why dont you try helping her with her addiction? Get your pops.involved

We've done that. Over the years I will hear my pops scream at her in the middle of the night at like 2am when she come back from god knows where
 

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You may need to hold an intervention and she should seek treatment for her addiction

At some point you have to decide not to enable. ...

I'm sorry you're going through this....it's something people underestimate the seriousness of. My aunts neighbors lost their paid off home and jobs due to excessive gambling and enabling one another

Im actually used to this. Thats why im a pessimist. :ehh:. Cant evwn trust my own mother:yeshrug:.

This is why I wanna move out within 6 months
 

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Well if you know she is a gambling addict, don't give her your money anymore.
Tell your dad that the problem is out of control as well.
I feel for you man, must be a terrible situation to be in.
 

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You better get her the help she needs nikka. Or else she just might get herself into some trouble that may cost her life :ufdup:
 

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Im actually used to this. Thats why im a pessimist. :ehh:. Cant evwn trust my own mother:yeshrug:.

This is why I wanna move out within 6 months

Sorry that you're dealing with this

Its hard not to become ....conditioned/jaded when living with someone who has an addiction and it's even harder if that person is a parent

I hope things improve soon
 
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