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I mean it's great you doin ya thang, but I can see where she coming from if you ain't took her out in hella long. Don't burn yourself out. It's okay to take a night off of the grind here and there to take care of other things. Just balance that shyt. :ld:
 

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You gotta show her what you're attempting to do...:francis: either she'll understand or be selfish... You trying to get your weight up that's more important than going out to be seen by others...
 

KENNY DA COOKER

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There's nothing wrong with him trying to level up but it sounds like he should do that alone instead forcing someone else to suffer along the way. I'm calling him dysfunctional because he implied it and I agree, it's not to make light of what he's dealing with, it's simply a matter of fact.

He should make time to take her out at the very least.

Preparing for the future by making sound business Decisions is FORCING HER TO SUFFER?!?!
:why:

Who Raised y'all buffoons?

I come from the era of you GRIND before you SHINE

ENTERTAINMENT is NOT A NECCESITY when this man said he is working his azz off and trying to leverage credit to start a business

Obviously he wants to be more focused right now

And as his WIFE she should be assisting him instead of trying to extend her HOT GIRL SUMMER

fukk wrong with y'all

oh I forgot Matt ..you are are a male FEMINIST anyway

There is no reasoning with you
 

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Preparing for the future by making sound business Decisions is FORCING HER TO SUFFER?!?!
:why:

Who Raised y'all buffoons?

I come from the era of you GRIND before you SHINE

ENTERTAINMENT is NOT A NECCESITY when this man said he is working his azz off and trying to leverage credit to start a business

Obviously he wants to be more focused right now

And as his WIFE she should be assisting him instead of trying to extend her HOT GIRL SUMMER

fukk wrong with y'all

oh I forgot Matt ..you are are a male FEMINIST anyway

There is no reasoning with you

I'm open to reason, but the minimum requirement is for you to say reasonable things. This is a girlfriend and not a wife but even if she was a wife, she's clearly unhappy in her relationship and all he can provide her is excuses for why he can't do something as basic as taking her out from time to time.

"I got PTSD"

"I'm listening to podcasts"

"I'm strategizing"

And she's supposed to be understanding and just deal with it, you nikkas keep proving "blavity Blacks" that say Black men only see Black women as workers right. nikkas want Black women to accept any and everything as long as it's in support of building up a Black man.

:francis:
 

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I'm open to reason, but the minimum requirement is for you to say reasonable things. This is a girlfriend and not a wife but even if she was a wife, she's clearly unhappy in her relationship and all he can provide her is excuses for why he can't do something as basic as taking her out from time to time.

"I got PTSD"

"I'm listening to podcasts"

"I'm strategizing"

And she's supposed to be understanding and just deal with it, you nikkas keep proving "blavity Blacks" that say Black men only see Black women as workers right. nikkas want Black women to accept any and everything as long as it's in support of building up a Black man.

:francis:


I STOPPED READING when you said GIRLFRIEND

ok CLOSE THREAD

OP cancel DAT byatch

Girlfriends are EXPENDABLE

no need to make a temporary fasination a permanent expense

Because at the end of the day like my mother always taught me..

"If she isn't your Wife YOU DON'T OWE THAT B1TCH A DAMN THING'
:usure:

Free yourself of her

Your physical..mental and financialy HEALTH is more important

And it's obvious she isn't ASSISTING you

cause most girlfriends have nothing to offer but PUZZY and PROBLEMS
:manny:

So concentrate on SELF

and finally DONT LISTEN TO THIS HOE AZZ FEMINAZI NAMED @Matt504 who will throw nothing but Shade at black men cause he doesn't think with an objective mindset when it comes to relationships

Do You man.....you could do bad by yourself

You don't need no selfish byatch to help you starve to death
 
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I STOPPED READING when you said GIRLFRIEND

ok CLOSE THREAD

OP cancel DAT byatch

Girlfriends are EXPENDABLE

no need to make a temporary fasination s permanent expense

Because at the end of the day like my mother always taught me..

"If she isn't your Wife YOU DON'T OWE DAR B1TCH A DAMN THING'

Free yourself of her

Your physical..mental and financialy HEALTH is more important

And it's obvious she isn't ASSISTING you

cause most girlfriends have nothing to offer but PUZZY and PROBLEMS
:manny:

So concentrate on SELF

and finally DONT LISTEN TO THIS HOE AZZ FEMINAZI NAMED @Matt504 who will throw nothing but Shade at black men cause he doesn't think with an objective mindset when it comes to relationships

Do You man.....you could do bad by yourself

You don't need no selfish byatch to help you starve to death

yeah, she's the selfish one, not the guy who's making excuse after excuse to not take his girl out on a date.

:mjlol:

you nikkas are delusional
 

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I STOPPED READING when you said GIRLFRIEND

ok CLOSE THREAD

OP cancel DAT byatch

Girlfriends are EXPENDABLE

no need to make a temporary fasination a permanent expense

Because at the end of the day like my mother always taught me..

"If she isn't your Wife YOU DON'T OWE THAT B1TCH A DAMN THING'
:usure:

Free yourself of her

Your physical..mental and financialy HEALTH is more important

And it's obvious she isn't ASSISTING you

cause most girlfriends have nothing to offer but PUZZY and PROBLEMS
:manny:

So concentrate on SELF

and finally DONT LISTEN TO THIS HOE AZZ FEMINAZI NAMED @Matt504 who will throw nothing but Shade at black men cause he doesn't think with an objective mindset when it comes to relationships

Do You man.....you could do bad by yourself

You don't need no selfish byatch to help you starve to death
I feel it. My main thing is I need someone who can support their man. And see 5-10 years down the line. How many times have we seen brehs stay stagnant and end up washed bc they didn’t handle business in their youth? I’m not tryna go out like that

And my lady is younger than me but I be tryna put her up on game w/what I’m doing. It seems like that finance stuff doesn’t interest her though.
 

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I feel it. My main thing is I need someone who can support their man. And see 5-10 years down the line. How many times have we seen brehs stay stagnant and end up washed bc they didn’t handle business in their youth? I’m not tryna go out like that

And my lady is younger than me but I be tryna put her up on game w/what I’m doing. It seems like that finance stuff doesn’t interest her though.


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that's what im talking about man!!.... you need a woman who is very conscious of what the future holds for herself as well as you

instead of a bird brain woman who is only concerned with living for the "moment"

you worked too hard man and i salute you for surviving your military experience and hope you are able to overcome your PTSD issues

seems like if she really "loved" you she would understand you better

but you know "today's woman" is more into Entertaiment aka "hot girl summer" instead of EMPOWERMENT

I despise women that are antagonistic towards financial matters

i was dealing wit that recently with a chick i've been dating the past month

here it is saturday night...she hasn't talked to me me since yesterday and i guess she is in her feelings cause i wasn't intrested in going out this evening or weekend...

cause i wanted to concentrate on restructuring my business as well as clearing up any revolving debt cause my goal is to be debt free before the holidays

we went out this past tuesday evening...i am not with all that going out twice and three times a week..i made plans to cook and chill at the house ....

her on the other hand seems to want to be a socialite...yet like i told her ..."YOU AIN'T GOT SOCIALITE MONEY" :ufdup:

guess it offended her...i gives a fukk......i was ready to drop her azz anyway ...cause the whole time i been trying to suggest that she forumulate a plan if she wants to get into event promoting business...cause her whole business model was fukked up.....she has just been taking losses all year

but i can't help the heffa...so i gots to go .........i got shyt to do ...and i love my life too much right now to have it burden by some broad who makes bad decisions

and unlike your girl who is young ...mines is 39 years old...too damn old to be trying to teach her how to manage her financial affairs..fukk dat :camby:
 

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Drop her.

No, she won't change.
No, the p*ssy ain't worth it.
No, do not bargain with your ego.

Yes, your PTSD will worsen
Yes, you might catch a case if she's feisty
Yes, you'll regret not doing it when you are 60
Yes, your credit and finances will crater
 

KENNY DA COOKER

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Drop her.

No, she won't change.
No, the p*ssy ain't worth it.
No, do not bargain with your ego.

Yes, your PTSD will worsen
Yes, you might catch a case if she's feisty
Yes, you'll regret not doing it when you are 60
Yes, your credit and finances will crater


exactly.....

BETTER YOUR SELF....FOR BETTER MENTAL HEALTH

OR YOU WILL LOSE YOUR WEALTH

CAUSE TOO MANY BYATCHES ARE PREOCCUPIED WITH SELF
 
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