My Opinion On Why Some People DON'T Reach Their "FULL" Potential

SirReginald

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I was thinking about this at work today :francis: A few months back while I was in college. Well, lets say February there was these two cashiers who works the register. They were okay with me and everything, but looked miserable. Two sistahs by the way. One day while they weren't doing anything they were just gossiping about who Rihanna was dating:ohhh: That was the first time I saw them smile. I'm always the guy who just observes. Anyway, they were like Rihanna is dating Leonardo whatever his name is. Listen, I never pay attention to celebs. When they said that it was the first time I said, "now I see why some can't reach their potential". One of those chicks I wanted to befriend to comfort her. Let me tell you a small story. I swear to god this is true. Ya boy was different as a kid. On the weekends I would ask my father to take me to the projects. Because I always lived a middleclass/working class life. He did every weekend and I saw some of my people live in shambles. At first he asked why you wanna go out there. Then, he told me you need to see it, so you can make a better life for yourself when you grow up. I will say this, I was lucky to come from a two parent household. Point is, if you want to progress and reach your potential you gotta focus from within :manny: You will NEVER get anywhere feeling sorry for yourself and worrying about others. I had to learn the hard way.




For my coli brethern who's in their mid to late 20's share your story hell whatever age you are.
 

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Effort,Ego and Energy...:mjcry:

When you make effort, build a lil ego, and create positive energy, the possibilities are endless...

I really feel you need a lil ego..Im way too humble and modest which is a double edged sword...

There have been plenty of examples to prove that im the only one limiting myself in life, but its just hard to get that engine in "go"sometimes..
 

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When others worry about other peoples business...

Mind yours and focus on the end result. Be consistent.

I remember this 21 year old i was smashing, she was boring to talk to...but as soon as she started speaking about chris brown, she felt like she had a purpose in life. Lol
 

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If someone is happy with the life their living who am I to judge?

I'm fine as hell just being a unionized worker doing my 7.5 hours a day and going home. Yeah if I apply myself I could move up the ladder but that has no interest to me :manny:

I remember meeting a breh who was making 6 figures as a engineer but he quit and became a chef and I'm damn sure he ain't making that type of gwap but he's happy.
 

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Most people are addicted to the familiar (dead end job with a steady paycheck, dead end boyfriend/girlfriend) and are afraid of taking chances because of the fear of losing that familiarity. :sas2:
THIS

If someone is happy with the life their living who am I to judge?

I'm fine as hell just being a unionized worker doing my 7.5 hours a day and going home. Yeah if I apply myself I could move up the ladder but that has no interest to me :manny:

I remember meeting a breh who was making 6 figures as a engineer but he quit and became a chef and I'm damn sure he ain't making that type of gwap but he's happy.
Good answer :win:
 

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Effort,Ego and Energy...:mjcry:

When you make effort, build a lil ego, and create positive energy, the possibilities are endless...

I really feel you need a lil ego..Im way too humble and modest which is a double edged sword...

There have been plenty of examples to prove that im the only one limiting myself in life, but its just hard to get that engine in "go"sometimes..

that's very true, so much of success in life is just TRULY believing you can do it. cause when you truly believe you are in 'go mode' all the time like you said, but when you don't you can't seem to do it. i'm dealing witht his same struggle right now
 
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