My parents loaned my sister $1,700,000 to buy her first home

[L&HH]

Difference between you back then and your sister now is your sister has stability. And she probably shown them over the years they could trust her with such an investment.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Who wants to pay back a $1.7 million loan tho

Loan 1.7 MILLION?? How long they got to pay that back? Imagine letting somebody hold a million right quick. That’s crazy to me.

they'll die before it's paid back. And then she'll end up pocketing most if it herself, mark my words.. and they'll let her get away with it because she's their baby and op just realized he was the ugly one this whole time

House will probably increase in value as well, she really came up

Set for life

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

Who wants to pay back a $1.7 million loan tho

0 interest and parents will be dead before you will pay it back anyways.

And if they are that rich, she will be getting crazy money when they die anyways.


@ anyone thinking that money is getting paid back.


y’all are stupid

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

I’m sure if you needed it then, they would have given it to you. They didn’t see you in a place of need, so they didn’t offer it. The fact you had the option of a family phone plan as an adult says they have helped you on your way up.

What exactly is it that you want them to do for you?

you mustve missed the part about them telling him to pull his bootstraps up over 2k

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

0 interest and parents will be dead before you will pay it back anyways.

And if they are that rich, she will be getting crazy money when they die anyways.


@ anyone thinking that money is getting paid back.


y’all are stupid

Not to mention the couple million dollars in value the house would increase by the time they would be able to pay that loan. 30+ years lol

 

[Ilye Alye]

Look at the racial wealth gap, y’all…

 

[Icepick Isaacs]

I think ya'll are skipping the marriage part. Are you married OP? Maybe your parents would give you the bread to start family and raise the grandkids...

 

[Haters Aggravator]

1.7mil for a starter crib?

OP's sister :

 

[Manolo]

Your parents casually have 1.7 million sitting around like that? And you haven’t leveraged that background and their resources to get rich on your own yet?

 

[Ineedmoney504]

That’s fukked up for sure. Sister will never pay that back and when your parents pass she just stole your inheritance. But as a man this the shyt we have to get use to tbh.

I grew up in a family of nothing left behind, so I can’t relate bro. But yea I understand your pain bro.

I’m sure if you felt you had a safety net you would have lived life different. But who knows if you had it like that if you would be where you are today.

 

[Menna]

I’m sure if you needed it then, they would have given it to you. They didn’t see you in a place of need, so they didn’t offer it. The fact you had the option of a family phone plan as an adult says they have helped you on your way up.

What exactly is it that you want them to do for you?

let me know the resources I have access to...They ask me for my financial advice all the time, stocks, real estate I helped them with a spreadsheet to map out there retirement...Was million dollar home loans brought up or in the equation....no Im not saying they HAVE to be im saying that they knew they were...holding out on something like this fukks with my reality I dont like that shyt....I don't need it im not asking for it and I would feel uncomfortable taking it...but to just say O we are doing this now????But 7 years ago I was sleeping on the floor???

 

[I Really Mean It]

 

[beaniemac]

The girls always get more. That’s just how it is.

my question is why isn't the husband contributing to this? I'd NEVER borrow that sum of money from my inlaws which would essentially allow them to hold that shyt over my head indefinitely

 

[Anno Domini]

nikka what do your parents do for work?

 

[Menna]

Difference between you back then and your sister now is your sister has stability. And she probably shown them over the years they could trust her with such an investment.

1.7 Mill GIVES stability....Its handing someone a lifetime of work and savings and struggle