my siblings and cousins are so disrespectful man
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GreenGrass
All Star
just tell them to stop fukking around and go do something with their life. live your own life, breh.
DIMES
Retired troll
who cares if your younger bro a bully
it's better to be the bully than to get bullied
u ain't read how he speak to his grandma ?
I know u on that manipulation wave but damn this is a baad kid
I can tell u a good guy. Have they ever been physically disciplined?
I got the urge to smack ur bros just off them few stories.
If that was me my parents would've been sent to me Africa. If they disrespecting their family like that nobody but God can help them. Tough spot... U gotta have a 1 on 1 with each of em.
Most importantly you gotta share this with your parents/grandma and settle this
coupercoli
Pro
You can't change your siblings/cousins. The only person you can control is you. Stay focused and do well in school, that's the best gift you can give your dad, grandma, uncle. When you're done with college and making money, then you can take care of your family and all the shyt your siblings/cousins put them through won't matter anymore.
Trust me, keep your shyt together and use your siblings/cousins as examples of what not to be.
Trust me, keep your shyt together and use your siblings/cousins as examples of what not to be.
i only read the first paragraph he wrote a godamn novel
u ain't read how he speak to his grandma ?
I know u on that manipulation wave but damn this is a baad kid
I can tell u a good guy. Have they ever been physically disciplined?
I got the urge to smack ur bros just off them few stories.
If that was me my parents would've been sent to me Africa. If they disrespecting their family like that nobody but God can help them. Tough spot... U gotta have a 1 on 1 with each of em.
Most importantly you gotta share this with your parents/grandma and settle this
You and your father are supposed to check your two siblings the second they started acting up.. It's too late now
If you're over 18 just get the hell out and support your g'ma and pops in a few years once you start making bread, they deserve it
If you're over 18 just get the hell out and support your g'ma and pops in a few years once you start making bread, they deserve it
This. If I even thought about doing some of the shyt your bros did my parents would've killed my ass.
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
People have to live their own lives. shyt shouldve been nipped in the bud. The older people get the more stuck in their ways they are. That's why you have to teach kids values and not just treat then with gifts. Experiences >>> material things.
SheWantTheD
Veteran
First of all you gotta look for the root of why they are both acting up. Is your dad not putting his foot down and demanding that they act right? Is he setting an appropriate example of what a man is supposed to be? Why do you guys live with at your Grandma's house rather than your own? And what about your mom? It could also be the area where you guys live at which could be influencing your younger brothers.
It seems like there's dysfunction in the home with your cousins, which trickled down to your little brothers. And your father, Grandma, and Uncle aren't putting their foot down and stopping the nonsense. Kids who are bullies are bullies because there are issues at home. Y'all are gonna have to sit down and have some type of intervention. You need to warn your other brother about that fast life, because he does not want to be a father in high school.
I think this is all a mixture of the authority figures in the house not setting boundaries and outside influences.
I got into a lot of fights in middle school out of self defense because of bullies. Outside of a few close friends I kept to myself. Funny thing is I looked out for kids who were bullied or who had no friends, but when it came time to help me none of them were to be found. In high school I didn't get into any fights at all.
It seems like there's dysfunction in the home with your cousins, which trickled down to your little brothers. And your father, Grandma, and Uncle aren't putting their foot down and stopping the nonsense. Kids who are bullies are bullies because there are issues at home. Y'all are gonna have to sit down and have some type of intervention. You need to warn your other brother about that fast life, because he does not want to be a father in high school.
I think this is all a mixture of the authority figures in the house not setting boundaries and outside influences.
I got into a lot of fights in middle school out of self defense because of bullies. Outside of a few close friends I kept to myself. Funny thing is I looked out for kids who were bullied or who had no friends, but when it came time to help me none of them were to be found. In high school I didn't get into any fights at all.