Negative people are anchors to those with a vision

[Tair]

They always have to insert their negative opinion on everything positive you are trying to accomplish. And oftentimes these same individuals don't have anything or do anything remotely impressive in their own day-to-day lives except telling you why something can't be done.

If you try to accomplish a rather big goal and only accomplish a 3rd of it, these negative a$$holes will be the first ones saying, "I told you so" thinking because you didn't fully accomplish the goal you failed. Meanwhile in your mind you're excited for accomplishing a chunk of it and will revamp your strategy to accomplish more it in the coming weeks to years.

They are hindrances and are low-key hoping you fail because they don't have your vision and, most of all, they want to be justified in their laziness.

Life is for the bold and those with who want to do, not sit idly by waiting for shyt to happen.

If you're a whining, negative anchor, do everyone a favor and become a hermit. Live your life alone so you don't bring unwanted irritation and stress to those filled with vigor and life.

 

[get these nets]

Be around negative people, unnecessarily, brehs.

 

[RhodyRum]

Tell your plans to people who can't assist you on accomplishing it so that they can levy their insecurities all up on you, brehs.

@Tair, the solution is very, very simple: SHUT THE FUKK UP. Unless the person you're talking to can give you hands on assistance with your goal or can invest in it, nobody needs to know shıt. Everyone else doesn't matter whatsoever, so for you to be upset at those responses to the point that you made a thread to voice your displeasure should tell you one thing:

SHUT THE FUKK UP.

And I'm not saying this to insult you, just so that you understand moving forward to keep your ideas close to the vest. Sharing information unnecessarily to the wrong people is a quick and easy way to fukk up your day. I love people who have visions and dreams to make shıt happen, and I despise people who want to do nothing but discourage the dreamers purely out of wicked spite. If you are that visionary, that dreamer, then I want you to fulfill that, which is why Imma remind you one final time:

SHUT THE FUKK UP.

In conclusion, at one point a man was commended for being the strong, silent type. You didn't gossip, you didn't overshare, you didn't boast, you weren't flashy, and you sure as fukk didn't have any feminine traits. You kept your head down, took care of and provided for your family, and you kept to your own business until it was time for a man to speak up and provide wisdom (with the occasional ass kicking for the line steppers). That's the world I was raised in and comfortably keep my ass in and it's much more beneficial in the real world than being one of these feminized nikkas with loose lips that thinks everyone cares what's on your mind just because we're in close proximity. While I'm happy that society is more comfortable with men expressing and dealing with their emotions and emotional trauma, we're still men. All that social media chatty-patty, tell whatever to whoever BS is for women and feminine dudes. Be careful who you share with.

 

[The Fade]

Group behavior influences individual behavior. And makes habits easier to obtain and drop through osmosis

Be mindful of your environment

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Be around negative people, unnecessarily, brehs.

Share your goals with negative people, unnecessarily, brehs.

 

[BaggerofTea]

anchors, also helping those with vision stay grounded with reality.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Tell your plans to people who can't assist you on accomplishing it so that they can levy their insecurities all up on you, brehs.

@Tair, the solution is very, very simple: SHUT THE FUKK UP. Unless the person you're talking to can give you hands on assistance with your goal or can invest in it, nobody needs to know shıt. Everyone else doesn't matter whatsoever, so for you to be upset at those responses to the point that you made a thread to voice your displeasure should tell you one thing:

SHUT THE FUKK UP.

And I'm not saying this to insult you, just so that you understand moving forward to keep your ideas close to the vest. Sharing information unnecessarily to the wrong people is a quick and easy way to fukk up your day. I love people who have visions and dreams to make shıt happen, and I despise people who want to do nothing but discourage the dreamers purely out of wicked spite. If you are that visionary, that dreamer, then I want you to fulfill that, which is why Imma remind you one final time:

SHUT THE FUKK UP.

In conclusion, at one point a man was commended for being the strong, silent type. You didn't gossip, you didn't overshare, you didn't boast, you weren't flashy, and you sure as fukk didn't have any feminine traits. You kept your head down, took care of and provided for your family, and you kept to your own business until it was time for a man to speak up and provide wisdom (with the occasional ass kicking for the line steppers). That's the world I was raised in and comfortably keep my ass in and it's much more beneficial in the real world than being one of these feminized nikkas with loose lips that thinks everyone cares what's on your mind just because we're in close proximity. While I'm happy that society is more comfortable with men expressing and dealing with their emotions and emotional trauma, we're still men. All that social media chatty-patty, tell whatever to whoever BS is for women and feminine dudes. Be careful who you share with.

Yep. Don't tell negative people nothing, because there will always be some excuse why it's not possible and why they can't accomplish it for themselves.

 

[RhodyRum]

Yep. Don't tell negative people nothing, because there will always be some excuse why it's not possible and why they can't accomplish it for themselves.

You know it. Not to mention there are those other types of snakes that'll come off as supportive as your vision is succeeding, but the minute God forbidden you plans come crashing back to Earth will be the first ones clowning you for your failed venture.

Which is why I said the only people a man needs to share his plans with is either people who can give him hands on help or people willing to invest financially in it. The people who "love" your ideas but never lend themselves in any fashion towards your idea succeeding tend to be the ones who deep down inside can't wait to bask in your downfall. This spans from something as mundane and low stakes as a fishing trip ("Why? We probably won't catch anything anyway. Besides, that shıt is boring and I can't check my Instagram out in the country.") to something as dynamic and high stakes as starting a business ("Did you know most businesses fail?" "You never ran no business and you've never been a boss." "You make good money as an employee and you become an employer? You stupid.)

If I wanna go fishing, I have zero reason to mention it to anyone who couldn't tell me the difference between a circle hook and a treble hook, and if I wanna start a business, I'm not mentioning it to anyone who's perfectly content with working under the thumb of a boss with minimal responsibilities and is averse to risk taking because dreaming big just ain't in their mental wheelhouse.

 

[RhodyRum]

anchors, also helping those with vision stay grounded with reality.

You need to differentiate here though. Some anchors will simply dock you, while others will pull your boat under into the abyss.

There are two types of anchors: Haters & Realists. For the haters, there are two types. There are the ones who A) either don't have it in them to have a dynamic vision, much less devise a plan to see it through. People fear what they can't comprehend, and you talking about shıt that's above them causes them to lash out due to their jealousy and insecurity, or B) they tried to do something dynamic, failed, and are now just bitter about it and will lash out at anyone who's thinking about doing something similar. They may speak to you in tones that come off as they're telling you a cautionary tale, but deep down they're deathly afraid of someone else succeeding where they lost, especially if they know that person closely. Misery loves company, crabs in a barrel, and all that good shıt.

The realists are what you're describing in your post. They're invested in some way in your visions (emotionally supportive and never allow you to adopt a mindset of failure, lending you their time and energy to work on your vision, or financial backing) and are truly vested in your success. For example, if I've already been a successful entrepreneur and I invest in your idea and I see you making moves that are gonna lead to you regretting it, you better be damn sure I'm gonna tell you what you're doing is wrong, especially if everyone else around you is too busy blowing smoke up your ass hoping to sponge off of your success. That constructive criticism from people who've already "Been there. Done that." and want you to succeed is what keeps people grounded. Simply discouraging people in a negative manner is what keeps people buried.

TLDR: Make sure the anchors on your boat is compatible with your seacraft. The right ones will keep you docked and safe and won't allow your boat to drift out to sea. The wrong ones will pull your ship right down to Davey Jones' Locker, the same place where their humanity lies.

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

But at the same time, nikkas be excited running round talking about “rent em spoons” and having an ego about it

 

[RickyDiBiase]

But at the same time, nikkas be excited running round talking about “rent em spoons” and having an ego about it

There’s literally nothing wrong with having an ego. Anybody saying there is a goddamn loser.

They always have to insert their negative opinion on everything positive you are trying to accomplish. And oftentimes these same individuals don't have anything or do anything remotely impressive in their own day-to-day lives except telling you why something can't be done.

If you try to accomplish a rather big goal and only accomplish a 3rd of it, these negative a$$holes will be the first ones saying, "I told you so" thinking because you didn't fully accomplish the goal you failed. Meanwhile in your mind you're excited for accomplishing a chunk of it and will revamp your strategy to accomplish more it in the coming weeks to years.

They are hindrances and are low-key hoping you fail because they don't have your vision and, most of all, they want to be justified in their laziness.

Life is for the bold and those with who want to do, not sit idly by waiting for shyt to happen.

If you're a whining, negative anchor, do everyone a favor and become a hermit. Live your life alone so you don't bring unwanted irritation and stress to those filled with vigor and life.

The problem is society looks at cynicism as a form of intelligence.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

Tell your plans to people who can't assist you on accomplishing it so that they can levy their insecurities all up on you, brehs.

@Tair, the solution is very, very simple: SHUT THE FUKK UP. Unless the person you're talking to can give you hands on assistance with your goal or can invest in it, nobody needs to know shıt. Everyone else doesn't matter whatsoever, so for you to be upset at those responses to the point that you made a thread to voice your displeasure should tell you one thing:

SHUT THE FUKK UP.

And I'm not saying this to insult you, just so that you understand moving forward to keep your ideas close to the vest. Sharing information unnecessarily to the wrong people is a quick and easy way to fukk up your day. I love people who have visions and dreams to make shıt happen, and I despise people who want to do nothing but discourage the dreamers purely out of wicked spite. If you are that visionary, that dreamer, then I want you to fulfill that, which is why Imma remind you one final time:

SHUT THE FUKK UP.

In conclusion, at one point a man was commended for being the strong, silent type. You didn't gossip, you didn't overshare, you didn't boast, you weren't flashy, and you sure as fukk didn't have any feminine traits. You kept your head down, took care of and provided for your family, and you kept to your own business until it was time for a man to speak up and provide wisdom (with the occasional ass kicking for the line steppers). That's the world I was raised in and comfortably keep my ass in and it's much more beneficial in the real world than being one of these feminized nikkas with loose lips that thinks everyone cares what's on your mind just because we're in close proximity. While I'm happy that society is more comfortable with men expressing and dealing with their emotions and emotional trauma, we're still men. All that social media chatty-patty, tell whatever to whoever BS is for women and feminine dudes. Be careful who you share with.

While I agree with your overall point this just isn’t true at all

 

[RhodyRum]

While I agree with your overall point this just isn’t true at all

Maybe not your truth but thanks for telling me the environment me and tons of guys my age (and older) were raised in, and the lessons our strong Black fathers instilled in us.

And considering how you run around here saying some insane, off the wall inner thoughts that have no reason to be shared with strangers only for nikkas here to turn around and clown you with your own words (and you catching feelings over it), and your posts have many people here saying you need to seek therapy, I couldn't be any happier we had different upbringings.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

Tell your plans to people who can't assist you on accomplishing it so that they can levy their insecurities all up on you, brehs.

@Tair, the solution is very, very simple: SHUT THE FUKK UP. Unless the person you're talking to can give you hands on assistance with your goal or can invest in it, nobody needs to know shıt. Everyone else doesn't matter whatsoever, so for you to be upset at those responses to the point that you made a thread to voice your displeasure should tell you one thing:

SHUT THE FUKK UP.

And I'm not saying this to insult you, just so that you understand moving forward to keep your ideas close to the vest. Sharing information unnecessarily to the wrong people is a quick and easy way to fukk up your day. I love people who have visions and dreams to make shıt happen, and I despise people who want to do nothing but discourage the dreamers purely out of wicked spite. If you are that visionary, that dreamer, then I want you to fulfill that, which is why Imma remind you one final time:

SHUT THE FUKK UP.

In conclusion, at one point a man was commended for being the strong, silent type. You didn't gossip, you didn't overshare, you didn't boast, you weren't flashy, and you sure as fukk didn't have any feminine traits. You kept your head down, took care of and provided for your family, and you kept to your own business until it was time for a man to speak up and provide wisdom (with the occasional ass kicking for the line steppers). That's the world I was raised in and comfortably keep my ass in and it's much more beneficial in the real world than being one of these feminized nikkas with loose lips that thinks everyone cares what's on your mind just because we're in close proximity. While I'm happy that society is more comfortable with men expressing and dealing with their emotions and emotional trauma, we're still men. All that social media chatty-patty, tell whatever to whoever BS is for women and feminine dudes. Be careful who you share with.

While I agree with your overall point this just isn’t true at all

Maybe not your truth but thanks for telling me the environment me and tons of guys my age (and older) were raised in, and the lessons our strong Black fathers instilled in us.

And considering how you run around here saying some insane, off the wall inner thoughts that have no reason to be shared with strangers only for nikkas here to turn around and clown you with your own words (and you catching feelings over it), and your posts have many people here saying you need to seek therapy, I couldn't be any happier we had different upbringings.

You talk mighty strong for a grown a man with a video game avatar

But yeah, what you said isn’t factual at all lol