No one cares about the original argument of hypocrisy.
The difference, according to western society, is women are highly sensitive and have unstable feelings, however, men supposedly do not.
women live in their perceptions and find peace there, while men have to live and accept reality.
Nelly has a small to average size penis, depends on who you ask, and he can take criticism because he still is going to get his penis sucked and inserted into vagina off his celebrity. Lizzo is obese and no amount of money and fame will make her attractive to the men she desire so let her live in perception so she doesn’t kill herself.
Not how I feel but that’s western society’s view on the OP.