Nerdy brehs, do you have to hide your Nerdiness to get Woman?

[UpAndComing]

Do you have to hide Nerdy aspects of you to get woman?

Do you hide your love of Science, Math, Philosophy, Comic books, Computers, etc etc because her p*ssy would dry up if you ever bring it up?


Just wondering

 

[KingBeez]

I keep my wrestling fandom secret to the women I date because I’m honestly embarrassed at how bad/corny the weekly product is. If I’m trying to get serious, I’ll eventually tell her

Anything else, not really

 

[BBG]

its a cheat code to be handsome, but nah. I'm completely myself around these hoes and give off a distinct "not giving a damn what you think" demeanor and they fw it again, 6'2 and handsome so results may vary but honestly, if they not fukkin wit you for you then it's not for you #message

 

[humminbird]

every date night I have to take away my Captain America shield, Thor hammer, black panther helmet, and iron man gauntlet from my car backseat before the date comes.

 

[NSSVO]

Kind of embraced it, and I have had relationships on and off for the last 10 years. When you hide it, you might have problems later.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

This doesn't become a problem as soon as you turn 30. People are willing to let frivolous bullshyt like that fall to the wayside. The key is to not make it a permeant aspect of ones personality. Yes, a potential mate may be curious about One Piece or Akira, but they not trying to refer to you as some Japanese psyedonuym when you clearly don't have enough bread to spend on hygienic products. Gotta have a balance. If you workout, and keep yourself in good shape, have solid grooming habits, then you shouldn't have a problem finding someone. We also have to remember that "nerd culture" is in right now, so it's not a big deal as people overexaggerate it to be.

 

[Henri Christophe]

If you can dress - you can be as nerdy as you want

I talk to women about international politics and history, but they dont think I'm lame.

Replace the Old Navy jeans with some slim fit jeans and replace the Dad Shoes with some LV sneakers.

Get some designer belts.... get some bracelets and necklaces.... get some rings.

 

[Mr. Negative]

hell nawl.

 

[Dre God]

Men of other races are allowed to have hobbies and interests and they’re never considered nerds/losers as long as they got some semblance of their life together.

They’re just considered normal men.


But because the media has shaped our masculinity to either be thug/athlete/ATM

If we have any interests outside of those we’re viewed as nerds

Some of the white dudes that I knew coming up had some of the nerdiest hobbies/interests yet they never had to hide their interests from women cuz other races of men are “allowed” to like shyt besides sports, rap and podcasts.

 

[Geordi]

You gotta take off your nuclear physicist hat and put on your hood scammer hat to get hoes.

 

[VertigoKnight]

I dont hide shyt.

I’ll say the kind of women I date. Are usually into stuff people would consider ‘nerdy’ so it balances out.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Fukk no.

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[RickyDiBiase]

Men of other races are allowed to have hobbies and interests and they’re never considered nerds/losers as long as they got some semblance of their life together.

They’re just considered normal men.


But because the media has shaped our masculinity to either be thug/athlete/ATM

If we have any interests outside of those we’re viewed as nerds

Some of the white dudes that I knew coming up had some of the nerdiest hobbies/interests yet they never had to hide their interests from women cuz other races of men are “allowed” to like shyt besides sports, rap and podcasts.

This is actually the case for black men as well, but some of ya'll clearly didn't grow up around other black folk. I knew black men who fixed computers, did good in science. Hell how many black men we know be stuck in the house playing playstation or nintendo all day? The key is being well rounded. If all you do is read comic books, fukk around on the computer but don't wanna go nowhere and not using that skillset to enhance your life, then really, the last thing you need to be concerned about is folks calling you a nerd.

 

[The Villain]

Nah but you definitely can't go overboard with talking about it
Like my work/gym backpack I have a Yu Yu Hakusho pin on it
Or I have a bunch of anime shorts that you wouldn't realize are some anime shyt unless you knew the series the designs are from. They just look like some colorful pattern summer shyt to the average person.

 

[Henri Christophe]

You gotta take off your nuclear physicist hat and put on your hood scammer hat to get hoes.

Facts.... at least in terms of presentation.

As long as you're able to put an outfit together - you're good.

Alot of nerd nikkas simply can't dress..... black women judge you harshly if you dress like a goofy