Never date a woman who has no hobbies

[yung Herbie Hancock]

It's a recipe for disaster. Just learned the hard way.

We dated for two months and I noticed that she never really had any hobbies. All her and her friends did was be on IG ,pintrest, and shop/gossip. I was fine with it because I loved getting so much alone time with her . She broke up with me two days ago because she got "bored" and the dude she moved on with was someone that we both knew when we were in the navy. I think what made me more mad was the fact that she had a backup dude that we both knew lined up already . I ended up confronting breh and he told me that they always chatted daily and hungout WHILE she was seeing me. Breh said he assumed that me and her were just friends with benefits . An idle mind is a wandering mind .

tldr if she has no hobbies, other men become her hobby when you're not around . Especially if you become boring to her .
If she has no hobbies her main hobby will be other men
This experience got me paranoid about ever getting married

 

[semicko82]

You share that girl

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Most females don't have hobbies

 

[Neil Tyson]

Most females don't have hobbies

Yeah I was about to say. Most of the time they just take on your hobbies if they're interesting

 

[Solano707]

#ystg
You share that girl

 

[Reno89]

That's the lesson you got out of that?

 

[J.E.T.S]

If any woman is into social media heavy, doesn't contribute, and complains about anything.

Bush. Bush. And.... bush.

Just broke up with my girl for all of the above.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Yeah I was about to say. Most of the time they just take on your hobbies if they're interesting

Not really. My last girl played soccer and it was her passion. We only broke up because I joined the Navy and she moved to Texas for school . Such is life .

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

That's the lesson you got out of that?

I've only ever seriously dated 3 girls so my exp on dating is novice. I had my fukkkkfest in the navy though but all that taught me was that women are just as sexual as we are. In terms of dating though my experience on how to have a healthy relationship etc. is low.

 

[Reno89]

Breh, Hobbies have nothing to do with it. A THOT is a THOT. For some women, it's a mode, and for others, it's a way of life.

If he got the impression that y'all were friends with benefits, there's a very good chance that she thought you guys were friends with benefits. S*** the only thing you mentioned that you liked about her was the sex.

She thought you were just smashing, so she stayed in thot mode. Kept her options open. The tone of this post suggests that you did not keep your options open.

 

[paperbag]

Sounds like her hobby was fashion/styling/photography
Sounds like you didn't pay enough attention and are boring
Sounds like what they say about the Congo isn't true(i want to enter a mocking Kobe smile here but I can't find it, you know the one)

If she was talking to another dude the entire time and linked up with him within 2 days, she was never that into it. You're young, it's fine

 

[semicko82]

That's the lesson you got out of that?

This

 

[Gold]

Sounds like her hobby was fashion/styling/photography

/thread

 

[Reno89]

I've only ever seriously dated 3 girls so my exp on dating is novice. I had my fukkkkfest in the navy though but all that taught me was that women are just as sexual as we are. In terms of dating though my experience on how to have a healthy relationship etc. is low.

This was all the info you need in the dating game breh. This leads you to 90% of the answers

 

[semicko82]

This was all the info you need in the dating game breh. This leads you to 90% of the answers

Yea that’s why I find it useless to push the marriage and courting agenda