Never judge a man for being with an ugly woman

[Uachet]

Nah fr bro lol. I would have gotten over myself and other people's judgement a lot earlier in life.

And the girl was sweet, she didn't mean any harm, she just liked me and wanted to be down. Who tf was I to be like, hey it feels good to be admired for who I am but what about these other nikkas, what will they think? They gonna laugh? What about the girls? They gonna make fun? That's bytch made shyt and it followed me out of HS.

I coulda got on my path a lot quicker had I just accepted the love. I ended up turning down/fumbling girls that were attractive out of insecurity and posturing for other people.

Ok, this is coherent and understandable.

 

[BuckFilly]

lol this is how you end up with ugly kids and or hiding your bm

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Brehs smashing women below them is a big part of what’s throwing off dating tho. Many younger women think because they can smash brehs 2-3 levels above them that they’re on that level too.

Yup.

And ALOT of us are guilty of it because we will be on some “means-motive-opportunity shīt” and get around someone who gets TOO comfortable.

Even a casual situation can seem like a relationship when she knows damn well this kind of encounter is like her waking up every day and $10,000 is magically in her bank account at 7am for doing nothing.

 

[lib123]

Well..

The thing is...

Ppl usually get with ppl that is on their level. One may think that he or she is "above" someone, but the reality is that most ppl are average or somewhere in that range.

Men who smash big women or so called unattractive women do so because they have natural urges to have sex.

The dating game is messed up because ppl don't set necessary boundaries for whatever reason. Some ppl mask their insecurities while others exalt themselves as being more than what they are..

But, one thing I have noticed being on this site for quite some time..

Many posters talk about smashing this, that and a third, but hardly anyone talk about establishing meaningful relationships with the ppl they smash...

The thing about b
growning up and getting older is that in the grand scheme of things, nobody cares about who we smash because most ppl smash someone otherwise we wouldn't have 7+ billion ppl on this planet...

Fair points. But to clarify, I think one of the biggest factors throwing off modern dating is women in the 6-7 range who can get smashed by top tier men thinking that they’re on the same level. Average and below average women don’t seem to have that delusion.

 

[Dont@Me]

Nah fr bro lol. I would have gotten over myself and other people's judgement a lot earlier in life.

And the girl was sweet, she didn't mean any harm, she just liked me and wanted to be down. Who tf was I to be like, hey it feels good to be admired for who I am but what about these other nikkas, what will they think? They gonna laugh? What about the girls? They gonna make fun? That's bytch made shyt and it followed me out of HS.

I coulda got on my path a lot quicker had I just accepted the love. I ended up turning down/fumbling girls that were attractive out of insecurity and posturing for other people.

I ain't ever cried reading a coli post before