“ Nggas Be Great Dads & Terrible Partners”

[Killer Instinct]

 

[sanityovar8ted]

This true brehs?

In my experience with my son's father/1st husband it iz indeed true. My son's were well taken care of. He bought them All the game systems, Jordans, haircuts(he took them) they didn't go without anything. We didn't move from place 2 place, utilities were never disconnected, always had food

BUT
We sold drugs, stole cars n rims 2gether, robbed Mexicans 2gether

BUT

He was a serial cheater and used 2 beat me
Never in front of our son's tho

We never did anything in front of them
Only thing they saw was when I started fighting his azz back

They didn't c me run him over however cuz they were in the backseat n couldn't c
I was on my way 2 drop them off at skool

Plus a baby on the side

 

[TEH]

Let me address the elephant in the room.

Kids listen … women usually don’t.

 

[shutterguy]

Imagine being envious of a CHILD as a grown as adult.

Social media has exposed just how many mentally ill people walk among us and hide it in plain sight. She really said "I'm immature and have unresolved issues" like that's some real shyt or insightful. Scust.

This…..

 

[1thouwow]

Nah ain't no way ...

My ex hated the relationship me and my daughter had . Even tho it's was her own daughter she used to say " I treat my daughter the way I should treat her" or "im my daughters dad not her husband"

Now she dealing with a man that has a child And her own daughter don't even talk to her she had daddy issues. I'm fine and my daughter is too ,you can't make this shyt up. But if woulda listened to her I woulda played myself and my daughter.

It’s crazy how women are jealous of other women, especially older women of younger women

 

[Weaver31]

Women have "intuition" and are considered smart yet cant pick a good man."Reginald seems like a good man,ehh he doesnt have enough swag let me go back to Trayverius. He may be an abuser but at least he isnt corny".

We as black men have to deal with this issue. We are expected to have a level of coolness and swag to us. It isn't fair but that's what folks stereotype us on. White and Asian men can be "educated lames" or corny but not us.

I honestly think we should strive to do better in areas that divestors and Cynthia G types get after us on like unemployment rates, economies/wealth in our community, crime rate, up our education or trade school or whatever training we need rates, and respect our women more. However they should respect us more especially the non problematic black men...because we all aren't bad unlike what social media and divestors say.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Tbh I think I'd be a great dad, but more times I'm a pretty bad boyfriend. Just being honest.

i think most people are forgetting that kids pick up on how parents treat other people especially their spouses. how "great" of a parent can you be if you are contributing to your kid being the same type of partner you are?

parents brag about being hoh, gmb, and players, but want to turn around and blame rap music when the kid ends up a thot

 

[UnQuantized]

Is it actually possible to be a "good partner" with 'these women'? Are brehs actually chasing a red herring

 

[Lucky_Lefty]

bytches can do hella of a background checks on jobs but don’t do any on nikkas they let hit raw

Smarten up

The poorest of poor p*ssy management. Then blame you if they get pregnant. Mentally ill

 

[doublejump]

Late but it goes both ways.

 

[kaldurahm]

i think most people are forgetting that kids pick up on how parents treat other people especially their spouses. how "great" of a parent can you be if you are contributing to your kid being the same type of partner you are?

parents brag about being hoh, gmb, and players, but want to keep turn around and blame rap music when the kid ends up a thot

For me personally I don't think it has to do hoh, gmb or being a player, I'm the opposite of a player. I just have low tolerance/patience dealing with adults and all the patience in the world dealing with kids.

Also my parents are immigrants and as such aren't the most romantic people in the world, in a lot of ways their marriage is very business-like which is unflattering. it's not the social media lovey dovey type of relationship. As a result I'm very business-like/practical when it comes to relationships as well.