"No sex" prior to being in a relationship is a myth ladies :stopitslime:

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I'aiin never seen a relationship that started the "storybook" way where yall meet, date forever (with NO sex), then become a couple, and then have sex for the first time :what:

shyt is unrealistic and yet you still hear females with those expectations (:duck:) these days.

In MY experience, AND from the experiences of every single couple I've known personally throughout my entire life, the relationship started with SEX and friendship.

And it was only after those two things were solidified that the bond became official.

Fortunately the females I meet seem to "get it". They already know, and there's no confusion. And if they aint wit it they go their way and I go mine :manny:

But it never fails that you get that one that likes you and starts feeling you, but then she tries to use the sex to trap you into a committment..she be like "i need to know what we are first" :mjlol:... and that shyt is just unrealistic. :mindblown:

If you're feeling a dude and you trust him and are attracted to him etc etc then gatdamnit let da nikka smash :damn:

If it becomes a regular thing then maybe it'll turn into something more serious. But all that storybook fantasy bullshyt is just that shawty, bullshyt.

Have you noticed how the females that DO find a simp-enough nikka to play the dating game for months then commit to sex always gets left by that same cat shortly thereafter? :ufdup:
Because he done got what he wanted already and it wasn't relationship worthy :manny:

Couldve saved both of yall alotta time by just letting him smash in the beginning when you knew for sure you were feelin him :manny:
 

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Lol I'm not a virgin.

I was hoping you'd say that cus now I got some questions cus I'on believe dat shyt chu talm bout yeen never had sex prior to a relationship :usure:

A. wtf?

B. u mean to tell me that from the time u met bruh til the time bruh said yes I'll make u my official lady, my woman, my girl, whatever, yall didn't have sex? :comeon:

C. AND you tryna say that when yall DID have sex for the first time, it was good enough to solidify the relationship between both parties :comeon:

D. how long was yall "talking" before he said "I do" :mjlol: , and how long after yall became official did it take for you to let him smash? The night of ? :comeon:

E. Dont lie :ufdup: da shyt aint happen like dat
 

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The biggest active myth/red herring going on is that you need to win a woman's favor and qualifications to get sex/relationships. Truth is all you need to win over is her endorphin system and the rest will fall into place
Wish my dad was around to tell me that at 12 years old. Would have made the following years soooooooooo much better.
Respectful, thoughtful, and attentive to teenaged girls:mjlol:
Day 1 im gonna clue my son in on that, no boy should be ass out navigating this shyt alone. NOTHING about women will make sense for the boy.
 

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I was hoping you'd say that cus now I got some questions cus I'on believe dat shyt chu talm bout yeen never had sex prior to a relationship :usure:

A. wtf?

B. u mean to tell me that from the time u met bruh til the time bruh said yes I'll make u my official lady, my woman, my girl, whatever, yall didn't have sex? :comeon:

C. AND you tryna say that when yall DID have sex for the first time, it was good enough to solidify the relationship between both parties :comeon:

D. how long was yall "talking" before he said "I do" :mjlol: , and how long after yall became official did it take for you to let him smash? The night of ? :comeon:

E. Dont lie :ufdup: da shyt aint happen like dat

I'm not going into all those details but we were together almost a year before anything happened and now we've been together for almost 3.
 
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