Nothing worse than an immature older person/elder

[Pazzy]

We talking about 50 and going on up. shyt is angering for real. At some point, I chalk it up to mental illness or a severe personality flaw/disorder.

 

[Brandsdale]

Lotta people, regardless of age are immature

Some of them em also have kids or are married

 

[MJ Truth]

Most people aren’t maturing past the person who they were in high school. The majority of the people aren’t really growing as much as they are simply becoming more entrenched in whoever they already are.

 

[null]

NPD person of any age is worse

 

[3:30]

@null what is NPD?

 

[Pazzy]

NPD person of any age is worse

You already know. ive vented about this for years on here unfortunately about specific someone in my family that possibly has this issue. But thats not the only elder on that immaturity train too. It seems quite common. I can recognize when someone has pathological narcissism right from the jump because Ive literally witnessed that shyt growing up and still to this day. Im at a point where I just dont want to deal with anybody elses bullshyt as in I am nobody's therapist. A lot of these people need to see a damn therapist especially these elders. Holding on to issues from 60 years ago. go to a professional. Its never too late to get help and still live a happy life.

 

[Mank1nd]

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[Pazzy]

Thats the thing, they dont want to live a happy life. All they got is their negativity and their trauma to justify it. They dont want anyone interfering with that, they dont want help. People have the right to refuse help and once you 50+, you either making it right with fam or not. Most aint giving a damn until that health scare hits and they laid up somewhere, reflecting their life. To even get a older person to agree to therapy is an act of God, I wouldnt rely on that, especially if they're black. Just be patient and hope they come around sooner than expected.

The truth. Its sad as hell. Crazy thing is that a lot of these elders are more physically healthy than the younger people. Mental health wise, its the other way around. And like you said, they chose to stay stuck in that mud. Even worse if theyre 70s, 80s even... you even have 90 year olds acting out.

 

[null]

@null what is NPD?

a narc



it's dangerous