Now She Want To Be My Girlfriend

[DonDiego]

So if your lady is tight, why do you have an outside woman? Ain't no puzzy like new puzzy huh?
Tell you what, if you had or are accustomed to having Puzzy you would realize that all puzzy, new or old comes at a price.
Just because you have been with her for some time doesn't mean she isn't plotting on that escape. Trust me, your BM knows that you are cheating and she probably
is too but she knows you are too busy chasing puzzy to even know whats happening in your own house.
I tell you what, my father was too busy being a father to his kids to have a side piece. You know, giving us morals and wisdom to live by so we didn't have to
seek our self worth through our interactions with others. Now that I know you are 33 breh its even worse. Think about your kids and what a side family will mean to them.
And to your point, if my wife EVER wanted or reached a point where she wanted another man, I would be the first to know because the signs and flags are evident.

Scared to talk about marriage, still running down women in his spare time instead of raising his kids...

Scared to dump his crappy BM and his wack sidepiece...

Sounds like you all deserve one another.


Carry on Jodie

Breh where the hell you getting these facts on MY LIFE from. Did you even read the OP all I said was she want a relationship after giving me some puss a few times. When did I say I'm leaving my family or starting a new one. I don't want this side bytch Breh she a side piece a fling she knew what she was dealing with. I never hide the fact I'm with my BM from no bytch.

Scared to raise my kids. nikka don't ever disrespect me in that way.

You know me. fukk outta here I'm here in the house with my kids now. Girl 3 boy almost 2. I nuture them nikka feed them bath them cook and take care of the bills.

fukk you talking about

You wish u lived in my shoes you simp clown ass nikka talking bout pac in a business suit. I bet you make your wife pay bills don't you.

How old are you?

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Good stuff, but there is that whole generational wealth and community building aspect of it. If my parents had this same mentality I doubt I would have an inheritance that I am planning on passing down to my own future children, or maybe selling to pay for college.

And you can’t do that without being married? Again, if your parents divorced, shyt you’d have two inheritances coming instead of one. Two houses, two sets of cars, two college funds

Marriage should not change how you treat your children. No matter what happened between your parents, they are alive. They should be taking care of you, housing you, leaving you everything when they die, and putting money in a college fund regardless if they are fukking, married, divorced or widowed.

Breh been with the BM for a min. We both avoid marriage talk. Well I do.

Marriage for what though what does it change what makes it right or wrong to be married with kids or not.


But how you know the couple isn't on this type of fukkery. The Coli know because I made the thread.

You don't know what that man or woman is doing when they are not with each other looking happy when u see them doesn't mean you should encourage the marriage.

What if he beat her ass she don't say nothing about it you see no signs. But when you see them shyt seem sweet

Nothing you’re saying I disagree with. I said I don’t recommend marriage unless I know them. And still that’s just my recommendation.

I’m not talking Facebook friends and people who give me a quick rundown. I’m talking my best friends. nikkas who I know cheating like “I’m bout to give her this ring and settle down”

“No nikka don’t do that. I just seen you fukking Tammy last week. You gonna be fukked up in a few”


While no matter what horrors some people KNOW a friend is going through.... “oh my god you’re gonna get married? I’m so happy for you”. Knowing he beat her ass and cheat every week.


A lot of people see marriage as the end game, so a lot of marriages are based on wanting to be married. They should be based on, is this a good relationship that will last and are we truly ready for 1 person forever.

I would never judge someone as a person, lover or parent, based on if they are married or not. Marriage don’t tell me shyt cause it don’t mean shyt to some people.

Reminds me of the time my homeboy was about to stop dealing with his side chick(I assume). I was out at a spot one night meeting some people and we in a booth and his side chick was via a guest of of the ppl in the booth. I cross him and this nigguh goin tell me when she get up to go dance or the restroom to take her phone and destroy it. I guess he wanted to destroy all evidence

Women NEVER delete anything. I just had a dude hit me up from his girl page. Why you hitting her up she with me. I don’t know him or her. This nikka send me a message from 2013, where we talked for 15 mins tops.

Now me...I delete messages after a few days. even messages from my best friend. Keep them for what? They just clutter my inbox.

bytches will save any little piece of convo from any stranger forever. Just in case. So they are definitely keeping it from somebody they fukking. And they probably screen shot the important shyt. And they surely showing their girls all your damn business

If you typed it. She got it. Believe that.

 

[Ms. Quick]

That's crazy I was gonna make a thread asking what folk are doing to establish generational wealth.

I have land no property on it but I have land. You see I cheat but I'm not a fukked up deadbeat ass dude. I take care of my family and my BM she hasn't paid a bill for her hair to be done even clothes she works but I handle mine.

My BM not dumb she came up if you ask me. I just gotta do me when I want

Well, my father inherited properties from his father; my grandfather was also married, about 40 something years before he died. Do I believe they didn’t stray? LOL no, and if there are b*stard siblings I don’t know about they’re not in the will so it doesn’t matter.

My boyfriend doesn’t know about it, but it’s going well and if we get married he and our children will obviously benefit from it. That’s how wealth is passed down from gen to gen.

Single women and their children (your baby mother) are even less likely to have that to pass down. Different rules and different circumstances for the sexes, that’s why it’s incredibly stupid for women to have children out of wedlock. Maybe one, because shyt happens, but two? Good lord.

Women are the gate keepers, biologically speaking, it’s in our best interest to vet and set up children with the best possible chance. Single motherhood, even with the father in home doesn’t favor a decent outcome statistically.

 

[DonDiego]

Well, my father inherited properties from his father; my grandfather was also married, about 40 something years before he died. Do I believe they didn’t stray? LOL no, and if there are b*stard siblings I don’t know about they’re not in the will so it doesn’t matter.

My boyfriend doesn’t know about it, but it’s going well and if we get married he and our children will obviously benefit from it. That’s how wealth is passed down from gen to gen.

Single women and their children (your baby mother) are even less likely to have that to pass down. Different rules and different circumstances for the sexes, that’s why it’s incredibly stupid for women to have children out of wedlock. Maybe one, because shyt happens, but two? Good lord.

Women are the gate keepers, biologically speaking, it’s in our best interest to vet and set up children with the best possible chance. Single motherhood, even with the father in home doesn’t favor a decent outcome statistically.

So your saying it's bad for single moms now it's bad for single moms with the father in the house.
The fukk. which is it.

And why wouldn't I have my BM name on my property. She the mom of my kids if I die all they got is her. My BM name will be on the next land I attempt to purchase we already spoke about it.

Now it's up to the women to vet and set up the kids for the best possible chance.

What?

Maybe in this day and age but shyt in the past all the women did was keep the house straight cook and clean the pops was the one out working for the kids and the family to set up the best possible chances for his family

 

[Ms. Quick]

So your saying it's bad for single moms now it's bad for single moms with the father in the house.
The fukk. which is it.

And why wouldn't I have my BM name on my property. She the mom of my kids if I die all they got is her. My BM name will be on the next land I attempt to purchase we already spoke about it.

Now it's up to the women to vet and set up the kids for the best possible chance.

What?

Maybe in this day and age but shyt in the past all the women did was keep the house straight cook and clean the pops was the one out working for the kids and the family to set up the best possible chances for his family

Still “single” regardless if the the father is in the home. Just glorified shacking as far as I’m concerned with no guaranteed fall back. Of course I’m speaking from a woman’s best interest so forgive me.

Now I’m just a bitter woman according to you, but it seems stupid to put a woman you’re not married to on your own assets, whether it be now or in the future. Pretty much everything but marriage at the point. Kind of silly, don’t you think? To have all these alleged marriage qualities, but no marriage.

But you be great, you just got some dumb women in your life.

 

[Karma Krasher]

 

[DonDiego]

Still “single” regardless if the the father is in the home. Just glorified shacking as far as I’m concerned with no guaranteed fall back. Of course I’m speaking from a woman’s best interest so forgive me.

Now I’m just a bitter woman according to you, but it seems stupid to put a woman you’re not married to on your own assets, whether it be now or in the future. Pretty much everything but marriage at the point. Kind of silly, don’t you think? To have all these alleged marriage qualities, but no marriage.

But you be great, you just got some dumb women in your life.

I feel you but hear me out. I love my BM to death we been through some shyt not relationship wise.

I would/will marry her one day. It's that I am not ready for it. You can't knock me for that.

People get married everyday and divorced. I don't want that to be me you feel me. So maybe I shouldn't have put my bi on The Coli but I don't care cause no one knows me here.

I felt it would be a interesting thread. Cause it's dude on here know what I'm talking about. I expected females to come through and bash me. But I bet some of them cheated in a relationship also kids or not.

Man a gyalis and know how to do his thing. There not one dumb female in my life trust. Please don't disrespect the women in MY Life.

Spoiler

Now I got the nice shyt out the way. bytch don't you ever come out ya cum guzzling baby swallowing mouth blue waffle looking stink p*ssy smelling ass ever disrespect the women in my life. bytch who is you

 

[Jsully]

Now she want to be boyfriend and girlfriend after giving me the puss bout 5 times. But she know I got a BM and we live together.

Thing is she don't want to give up the puss again til we in a relationship


Women and the bullshyt.

Tell her the lease in both y'all names and you can't go anywhere till it's up

 

[DonDiego]

Tell her the lease in both y'all names and you can't go anywhere till it's up

I'm not tryna leave my BM. chick knows this

 

[Jsully]

I'm not tryna leave my BM. chick knows this

I know breh... saying all that will just buy you some more time. Or do what I do now. Tell her your situation and say we can keep rocking how we rocking or dead it... she'll accept it if she really feeling you

 

[Ms. Quick]

I feel you but hear me out. I love my BM to death we been through some shyt not relationship wise.

I would/will marry her one day. It's that I am not ready for it. You can't knock me for that.

People get married everyday and divorced. I don't want that to be me you feel me. So maybe I shouldn't have put my bi on The Coli but I don't care cause no one knows me here.

I felt it would be a interesting thread. Cause it's dude on here know what I'm talking about. I expected females to come through and bash me. But I bet some of them cheated in a relationship also kids or not.

Man a gyalis and know how to do his thing. There not one dumb female in my life trust. Please don't disrespect the women in MY Life.

Spoiler

Now I got the nice shyt out the way. bytch don't you ever come out ya cum guzzling baby swallowing mouth blue waffle looking stink p*ssy smelling ass ever disrespect the women in my life. bytch who is you

Oh, so you’re an outlier. How convinent for you and the dumb members of your harem.

While I’m guzzling cum, get a lawyer before you make a single woman a beneficiary of your assets.