Old Heads, Was Your Early 20's Hard For You?

[SirReginald]

This is a serious thread. Some people know my struggle (not going into detail). I've been making money on the side by doing gigs for random people.

However, was your early 20's hard? What did you do to overcome it?

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

In

 

[Stir Fry]

Nah, mine was great. I started early though, so becoming almost totally independent during this time period was a natural progression for me.

 

[1 other person]

Mine was



Doing good now

 

[Elim Garak]

Im 32 still dont have everything I want but been working since 19 never been homeless or anything like that though. Make more money and have a better job for the last 5 year but the more money you make the more you spend lol.

 

[Mac Brown]

Early 2000's was my early 20's.

What society doesn't tell young men is that our 20's suck ass!

while women (attractive ones) are damn near treated like celebrities.

I didn't start to get my shyt together until I was around 27. (meaning that I had that "good" job and all that). But I started at around 22 with a decent job at a very large oil/gas company. I made sure to start setting myself up early. No bullshytting and "finding myself" bytch shyt.

Dating is horible because these young girls around your age are being recruited by older nikkas with a lil money and stability. But don't be mad, cuz thats just nature. Women date for resources, thats just what it is.

But my advice is to set your mind to what you want to accomplish by the age of 22/23 and work toward that. Then set your mind for what you want to do for the second half of your life around 45 or so.


But you breh... YOU! need to cut out this weirdo shyt and just get to it.

 

[blockburna420]

nope shyt was actually dope af , moved out the crib at 22. fukked a lot of bytches. Pretty much all i wanted to do

 

[SirReginald]

Early 2000's was my early 20's.

What society doesn't tell young men is that our 20's suck ass!

while women (attractive ones) are damn near treated like celebrities.

I didn't start to get my shyt together until I was around 27. (meaning that I had that "good" job and all that). But I started at around 22 with a decent job at a very large oil/gas company. I made sure to start setting myself up early. No bullshytting and "finding myself" bytch shyt.

Dating is horible because these young girls around your age are being recruited by older nikkas with a lil money and stability. But don't be mad, cuz thats just nature. Women date for resources, thats just what it is.

But my advice is to set your mind to what you want to accomplish by the age of 22/23 and work toward that. Then set your mind for what you want to do for the second half of your life around 45 or so.


But your breh... YOU! need to cut out this weirdo shyt and just get to it.

I already know what I want to do finally at 24. However, it's hard for me. Like I said, I have a job coach and I've been in contact with her a lot. Been trying to find a call center or secretary job before the new year. I'm trying to take my A+ Cert next year. Because I want to do IT. Just did Pharm Tech because I was pressured into it, but I did gain two certs from that program.

 

[ROFL_GUY]

I already know what I want to do finally at 24. However, it's hard for me. Like I said, I have a job coach and I've been in contact with her a lot. Been trying to find a call center or secretary job before the new year. I'm trying to take my A+ Cert next year. Because I want to do IT. Just did Pharm Tech because I was pressured into it, but I did gain two certs from that program.

 

[acri1]

Kinda sucked for me because I was in my early 20s when the recession hit so finding a job out of college was rough.

So I was relatively broke until my mid-late 20s.

 

[Obreh Winfrey]

This is a serious thread. Some people know my struggle (not going into detail). I've been making money on the side by doing gigs for random people.

However, was your early 20's hard? What did you do to overcome it?

Tryna say you been sellin bussy ?

 

[SirReginald]

Tryna say you been sellin bussy ?

I'm not in a good mood tonight. So, spare the damn jokes.

 

[MikelArteta]

life is hard till you die unless you're rich

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I just turned 25 but if I could go back to 20 my main focus would be to get my money and my life right. Start early breh. I'm just now starting to shyt that I shoulda did along time ago. Car,license, getting my own crib, building my money up etc

 

[Jesus Is Lord]

Hard in what way?
Mentally?
Spiritually?
Financially?
Career-wise?


Well, yeah. It was hard in every area except having fun. Early 20’s felt like I was a grown child.
I had my own apartment at 21 and rather mature, but I was immature in the aforementioned. I didn’t gain full maturity until I took full responsibility of where I lacked.