Older brehs, how would you feel about being older and having a young wife that pretty much is like a nurse for you (video included)?

[El_Mero_Mero]

My boy's father passed away last summer. He was 73 and his girlfriend was 29. They were both Dominican. He had 2 strokes in about 6 months. He still moved around fine though (no cane, drove a Mazda, still danced, no mental impairments, face was fine after a while, etc.). Pretty much that first stroke didn't really "stop" him. I think that's because he had always had a wild and active lifestyle. After that 2nd stroke though, he was dead in less than 2-3 days. I heard that's what he preferred though. Me personally, I wouldn't want someone taking care of me like a sick patient either.

What say y'all? Nobody wants to die, but would you rather be the cat that makes it to his 70s at least and then goes out quickly with all of your faculties intact OR would you rather be like the guy in the video (mental still intact, but with a young wife having to take care of you like a baby)?



Also, I'm looking for an honest opinion. If you feel: "Well, I'm paying all the bills still, and they'd be broke without me, then YEA! let her be my nurse too.", then you should say that.

 

[old pig]

as long as my dikk works…it’s all gravy.

*edit*

reading the scenario, I’d rather just die…not afraid of death but I don’t want to deal with the pain/suffering

 

[Mike809]

Unless I'm in constant pain , I aint trying to die.

 

[Originalman]

In before....."something something passport bros make me sick and that old man is scum using that young lady"

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

id have it no other way

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Couldn't do it.

Seems selfish.

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[El_Mero_Mero]

id have it no other way

Just to be clear.

You mean your pride wouldn't get in the way, and you'd be okay with your young wife taking care of you? Is that what you're saying?

 

[Easy-E]

Just to be clear.

You mean your pride wouldn't get in the way, and you'd be okay with your young wife taking care of you? Is that what you're saying?

Ummmm, so you'd be more okay with your old wife doing that same?

 

[El_Mero_Mero]

Ummmm, so you'd be more okay with your old wife doing that same?

I think if I had an older wife that I've been with for years, then yea, I'd be more comfortable with her picking up after me and being a nurse for me.

But I didn't necessarily come to the conclusion as to which option I would use. If my mental faculties are no longer there and I can't even enjoy the latest shows on streaming services, and I'm in pain and all that, then I would probably rather be dead. My social security or an inheritance would be used to take care of the young wife and kid that I leave behind.

 

[Easy-E]

I think if I had an older wife that I've been with for years, then yea, I'd be more comfortable with her picking up after me and being a nurse for me.

But I didn't necessarily come to the conclusion as to which option I would use. If my mental faculties are no longer there and I can't even enjoy the latest shows on streaming services, and I'm in pain and all that, then I would probably rather be dead. My social security or an inheritance would be used to take care of the young wife and kid that I leave behind.

Okay, that makes more sense.

I thought we making fun of men with younger wives.

OP is definitely an extreme situation

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Just to be clear.

You mean your pride wouldn't get in the way, and you'd be okay with your young wife taking care of you? Is that what you're saying?

I wouldn’t have it no other way
Sound good to me
What pride ? lol where is this pride feeling coming from Mr.Mero Mero ?

 

[El_Mero_Mero]

I wouldn’t have it no other way
Sound good to me
What pride ? lol where is this pride feeling coming from Mr.Mero Mero ?

In regards to "pride", I meant like if you were "the man" back in your day, if you used to run sh!t, if you were el mero mero. Then you probably wouldn't want your significantly younger wife (or anybody for that matter) seeing you in such a pitiful and helpless state.

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

In regards to "pride", I meant like if you were "the man" back in your day, if you used to run sh!t, if you were el mero mero. Then you probably wouldn't want your significantly younger wife (or anybody for that matter) seeing you in such a pitiful and helpless state.

if u used to run shyt
Then she should understand why she wiping yo ass and cleaning up after u.


You DESERVE it and earned that right

I don’t think you know your real worth Mero Mero
I really don’t.u sound like u need to be on top of life ,even in old age

People u take care of or care about gotta do the same for u one day.
Don’t be to prideful

Some women enjoy that stuff and u would rob them of happiness man

Some people here to serve like me.everyone can’t be Diddy or the guy wit the degrees n shyt.

All some talentless people have is being nice and helping others.

Let them


Gotta know your role and let people play theirs

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

If I'm 73....I don't need a wife that young unless she's just the perfect match.

I'm attracted to 50 year olds in my 30s....and I'm also attracted to 20 year olds. If the young gurls just like me, that's cool. I wouldn't seek a broad that young out. Some of these cats would DEFINITELY be tryna holler at 15, 16 year old girls in the old days. Some dudes just have this mindset where they're only attracted to yung tings. Even if the 40 year old actually looks better than the 25 year old, they value her age more than her. It's a control thing. They need em malleable...not hating but it's definitely a personality type that does this.

 

[Phitz]

To each their own, if people match they match. I do think people should be aware of biological changes and functions, even genetic illnesses of the partner they get with. Some poeple get arthritis at 30, some have multiple sclerosis(sp?).