Older brehs of the Coli... Do you still have "crushes"?

[MischievousMonkey]

We're near Valentine's season

Do you OGs still develop a crush when you find one that seems different, just like when you were foolhardy? Butterflies in the stomach and all?

Or is it now just straight business on some "I like her enough to want to spend time with her so there's that"?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I dont think it's possible for me to feel butterflies at this point in my life. That's something you feel when you believe in the sanctity of these thots and you're still putting them on petal stools.

At this point in my life after seeing all of the grimy, conniving, pure evil that these women participate in? Hell nah. It's just a matter of finding one who is a little bit better than the rest of them. And that don't require butterflies or crushes.

 

[KING WILL]

Nah, just some we wanna fukk more than others.

 

[SunZoo]

Aboslutely.

There's a younger girl that be chosing at the store I shop at. She's so fukking pretty, brown skin, dimples, and she's so sweet, has the best vibe. It's a crush because even though I like how I feel around her and I can tell she likes how it feels around me, I'm not sure it's a good idea to engage.

Rather than ruin her life I'ma just let it be cute lol

 

[Reality]

Lol, no. Once you've been in enough relationships with women, that crush feeling goes away. You just like them or have interest, but you know even the nicest, prettiest, baddest, most quality ones still come with headaches...as anyone does.

 

[Digital Omen]

Not on some HS shyt where all you do is think about her 24-7 and you haven't even hit it yet
Now it's more like I'm interested what is she about?

 

[tuckgod]

Lol, no. Once you've been in enough relationships with women, that crush feeling goes away. You just like them, but you know even the nicest, prettiest, baddest, most quality ones still come with headaches...as anyone does.

Don’t let the magic go

Your soul needs it

 

[tuckgod]

Aboslutely.

There's a younger girl that be chosing at the store I shop at. She's so fukking pretty, brown skin, dimples, and she's so sweet, has the best vibe. It's a crush because even though I like how I feel around her and I can tell she likes how it feels around me, I'm not sure it's a good idea to engage.

Rather than ruin her life I'ma just let it be cute lol

Very wise post

 

[Vandelay]

That high school, frozen, always thinking about her shyt...nah

But every now and then I run in contact with a woman that I visualize myself in a relationship with. Crushing for me now in my late 30's is, "I can see myself wanting to do more than just fukk her..."

It's been about a year or 2 since even that has happened though. Probably cause I have my own damn relationship now.

 

[Amused Mastery]

Crushes as an adult? Nah

Ask her out and if she says no, move on. Not gonna sit around fantasizing about the image of her I have in my head like a schoolboy lmao

 

[east]

That's something you feel when you believe in the sanctity of these thots and you're still putting them on petal stools.

@Your Welcome

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

Yeah and I went out with her last night and was nervous smh...been waiting to take her out for years only to find out that she's 23 and im 40

Me having a crush on someone rarely happens so it's a nice feeling when it does happen

 

[DonB90]

No...once the butterflies go tgey don't come back

 

[KingsOfKings]

Yeah ain't shyt wrong with it

 

[Commish]

Nah.

I'll let the youngstas have crushes so they can experience getting their hearts crushed.

Comes with the territory..

**shrugs*