On: Dating someone who lives @ home

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Gents,

What are your thoughts about dating women who still live at home(meaning with their mom or parents)? Are you cool with it or do you prefer that she has her own spot?

What about her having roommates? Would it be a deal breaker if a woman you just met or dating never lived alone or with roommates? Do you have an age limit on a woman living w/ her folks?

Ladies, the same questions apply on your end, but I suspect that men are generally a lil more accepting of women living at home than the inverse, but of course there are exceptions..

What say you all?
 

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It depends on how big is the house is. Can she live a relatively private life like in the basement or upstairs or some shyt? I don't wanna go over to her place and have to deal with her parents every time :camby:

Also, having roommates depends on the location. If I'm in a high cost of living place like DC, NYC, or SF, she's probably gonna have roommates to help with the rent. I'm fine with that.
 

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It depends on how big is the house is. Can she live a relatively private life like in the basement or upstairs or some shyt? I don't wanna go over to her place and have to deal with her parents every time :camby:

Also, having roommates depends on the location. If I'm in a high cost of living place like DC, NYC, or SF, she's probably gonna have roommates to help with the rent. I'm fine with that.

I am with you on not wanting to deal with a woman's folks every time I visit. I also agree with someone living in a HCOL state or city. Gotta be flexible and understanding in that regard..
 

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I dated a chick earlier this year who lived at home still. She just came over more often.

Has she ever lived away from home or is she in a situation where it is financially better for her to live at home?
 

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Nope. Gotta keep the same energy they do.

Hmm..

I hear you and I wanna feel that way, but..

There is a slight double standard when it comes to living arrangements. I highly prefer a woman to have her own spot, but I also understand that times are hard and depending on the person and their circumstances may have to live at home to get back on their feet.

IMO, when dealing with some people who don't have their own spot, they may try to move in your shyt which may not be the business..
 
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