On: Dealing with someone who is religious...

[Commish]

I have some questions to ask.

Gents, have you ever been charged to the game by a woman who told you that y'alls spiritual beliefs isn't aligned?

My story..

There was this woman who reached out to me via a dating site yesterday. We exchanged a few emails and she gave me her number today. Before that, she asked me if I attended church.

I told her that I do not attend church, but was open to it.

Fast forward..

I called and after exchanging salutations and small talk, I asked her if she is looking for someone who was equally yoked spiritually as herself. I also asked how she felt about my situation on the spiritual tip and she said that she doesn't think that it would work for her because she preferred someone who shared the same faith as her.

She was very polite about her sentiments, but felt that she needed someone who was already into the church and whatnot..

Nevertheless, I promply ended the conversation and wished her well with her romantic endeavors...

Tbh, I actually respected her honesty because she was very upfront about what she was looking for instead of playing games and wasting time like a lot of women do on dating sites.

For me, I never really dealt with women who was super religious, so I found it interesting to be charged to game based on me not sharing a specific faith.

How have you dealt with someone who was religious? Did it work out or not?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

My ex said we wouldn't work unless i either ate meat or believed in god. (This was 2017). I wasnt changing shyt and we stopped talking.

Fast foward to 2018 and got in a relationship in less than a week of linking back up.

(I was still the same way)

 

[Commish]

My ex said we wouldn't work unless i either ate meat or believed in god. (This was 2017). I wasnt changing shyt and we stopped talking.

Fast foward to 2018 and got in a relationship in less than a week of linking back up.

(I was still the same way)

Well, at least she was flexible with you. You were given a choice to boot and she got back with you.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

You can't hang out with people who are high if you're sober

 

[get these nets]

OP

because you didn't meet the traditional way, she has to use criteria to weed people out. Don't take it personally.

 

[King Khufu]

If someone trusts their moral faith then they are a great person to be around.

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If someone is using religion to ploy different ideas or as a safe guard then they are wrong. (Probably fronting.)

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Hoes stay fronting about religion and false flagging like they deeply religious


But if u the right nikka all that go out the window

 

[Taadow]

You can't hang out with people who are high if you're sober

/thread

 

[King Khufu]

if u the right nikka all that go out the window

Exactly!

All these women cares about now a days is meeting a dreamy guy who can knock theirs drawls off out the bag. Everything else is just a game to them till then.

What can I say? I'll be that nikka soon enough. #KangStatus #SwaggerClassic

 

[klutch2381]

OP

because you didn't meet the traditional way, she has to use criteria to weed people out. Don't take it personally.

No, really religious women will come at you the same way even if you met in person, eventually. For them, a church going man is a moral man (despite whatever past experiences they had that illustrate that isn’t some definite thing). On those occasions you really can only keep it real. Some women will express their own “crisis of faith,” others will try to understand or persuade you, and some will shun you. Welcome to the club, OP.

 

[Commish]

OP

because you didn't meet the traditional way, she has to use criteria to weed people out. Don't take it personally.

No doubt! I am not taking it personal. I actually appreciated her transparency which is rare these days..

But, what I took from this brief exchange is that I need someone who is flexible. She is looking for a Christian man and I am not a Christian. I told her that I set my ego aside for someone else's happiness..

She was a fairly good looking Brehette, but somewhat inflexible when it comes to spiritual beliefs which is cool. Better to know from jump rather than go through drama down the line.

I hope she finds what she is looking for. I could tell she was raised well, even if we spoke to each other briefly...

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Exactly!

All these women cares about now a days is meeting a dreamy guy who can knock theirs drawls off out the bag. Everything else is just a game to them till then.

What can I say? I'll be that nikka soon enough. #KangStatus #SwaggerClassic

I be talking about satanic shyt with my girl and did with my ex

They just be like
"whatever Yahweh" and laugh it off

 

[King Khufu]

I could tell she was raised well

Good people seek the best in themselves and in others. Don't let differences break you if you two like each other, go ahead.

Otherwise, it might be a bigger price tag than what outcomes in profit. True Life!

See my point now? Choices. To Be Made!

 

[MajesticLion]

You can't hang out with people who are high if you're sober

Props to her for her honesty, respecting respect others' time is a must

 

[Dad]

I’d hang around. She isn’t as “religious” as she claims to be, just from the story. I’ll put money up that you could fukk