One thing about dating a single mother

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

That never gets mentioned is a lot if them waiting on their kids father to get their stuff together. I see people bashing women for having kids. I don’t bash single mothers or judge them like a lot of you. I’m just careful with them cuz you go and invest in them while they on a break from their bd then they get back with dude they will totally discard you.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

thesinglemother.com

 

[Cornershooter]

That’s the part that’s never conveniently mentioned when men are shamed into dating single mothers .

Here’s a trick I do

The first mention of her baby daddy I say you guys should get back together be a happy family I’m sure the child would be happy .

And watch the response you get . When they realize that you think it’s a good idea and it’s just casual . Half the time they admit they still talk to him and might get back together if blah blah

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

Breh I’m serious anybody whoever dealt with a chick with kids will tell you. Most of them waiting on their children father to get right. Now she’ll give you some but you can’t get caught in that situation these chicks go on breaks from their dude just to sample some new rod. They look for simps with money to make them feel good then they go back and try to work it out with their kids father.

 

[Cornershooter]

most women with children I’ve casually dated went back to the baby father.

They just decide to bring simps into their drama who don’t know better or choose to not do better . They don’t care they are narcissist that don’t see men are humans with feelings and etc

Your job was to smash and dip not play step daddy not get caught up in some baby mama / baby daddy love triangle

 

[Braman]

That never gets mentioned is a lot if them waiting on their kids father to get their stuff together. I see people bashing women for having kids. I don’t bash single mothers or judge them like a lot of you. I’m just careful with them cuz you go and invest in them while they on a break from their bd then they get back with dude they will totally discard you.

I hate when young nggas think they found a new way to look at the world

‘I’m not like y’all’

@ bold yea no shyt. This is why we avoid them

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

most women with children I’ve casually dated went back to the baby father.

They just decide to bring simps into their drama who don’t know better or choose to not do better . They don’t care they are narcissist that don’t see men are humans with feelings and etc

Your job was to smash and dip not play step daddy not get caught up in some baby mama / baby daddy love triangle

Now a dude with alot to lose should really consider everything before trying to be a superhero. Misery loves company.

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

A hate when young nggas think they found a new way to look at the world

‘I’m not like y’all’

@ bold yea no shyt. This is why we avoid them m

I mean it gets worse imagine if she got kids by multiple dudes. Now you got multiple dudes to worry about. They might jump you over her

 

[Ahadi]

Never EVER meet the kid.

NEVER go to her place.

 

[Jasonmask]

I’m talking too much on here tonight I try to lurk to avoid peons because I’m not wasting time going back n forth anymore but I don’t have any kids and I could never see myself seriously entertaining bms tbh. I’ve smashed some but didn’t find out until later and was mad like I’ll dead block a girl the second she tell me because of the baggage and I have better options.

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

Never EVER meet the kid.

NEVER go to her place.

I concur. They lucky to come to my crib if they do they be on some I’m going to spend the night. I be like I gotta work in the am Don’t let her start spending the night then she’ll start leaving stuff next thing trying to move in and sponge off you

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I don't know any single moms that would get back with their baby father. By the time I encounter them, that ship has LONG sailed.

 

[The ADD]

Don’t date them

 

[ignorethis]

Most of their bds are bums with no chance of ever turning it around lol.

These women don’t have loyalty to a BD, if a better man comes and sweeps them of their feet, their BD is dead to them.

Some of them will try and send the BD to jail just to get him out the way completely if he don’t move around, I’ve seen it first hand lol.

The real downside of single mothers is kids are expensive and time consuming, she’ll most likely never be able to reciprocate the time and resources you put into her. And it’ll be harder for her to invest in herself.

But of a lot of them know this and compensate by being damn near perfect women when it comes to catering to a man that they like and their child likes, they go full sex slave - wife mode without any real commitment to sell you on the idea of family with them.

 

[The Half-Blood FKA Prince]

@ the username/post correlation fukkery afoot in this thread.