Pandering nikkas like this are more insidious than passport bros and red pill nikkas

[Max Power]

It's always the butterball nikkas.

They're a disease.

 

[Vandelay]

I see what he's saying, but he's also leaving out women's baseline standards have gotten ridiculous.

 

[Legend27]

There was nothing wrong with what he said. nikkas mad at the sky being blue

 

[The Phoenix]

He didn't say anything remotely controversial.
He didn't say women don't need men, just they got a lot more choices then people they went to HS with nowadays. It's true.

Yeah I thought I was about to hear dude say something wild. If nikkas are offended by what he said then they are probably the issue.

 

[Ski Mask]

I wouldnt call this pandering, its true women have choices and with that more freedom to choose. Now on the other hand I do think more people will be shyt out of luck dating wise rather its men who cant meet womens standards or women who cant afford the standards she has.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Truth is women never wanted to be married like that. We spent thousands of years trying to keep women from doing what they really wanted to do and to keep them under control. What we see now is close to how they really wanna be.

What makes you think women don't want to be married and don' want a man in the house? You think they want to stay in the cold and lonely streets?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Lol ah man. You cats aren't serious about wanting actual change for the better, with really thinking it's a good thing women got "freedom".

Black women are the most "free" women in the West, and look at where the black "community" is currently at and will keep on going. They're "free" to do whatever the fukk they want and we can't tell them anything. If we do, we get shouted down by them, the filthy cacs that pump them up, and the simpleminded rockhead buffoons that will run interference.

So, the next time you bums are wondering why the black family is ruined, why the black woman has no respect for the black man, why the following generation of black children are so damn lost, etc. Maybe take a deeper look into whether our women being so "free" is playing a part or not.

It takes two to tango. Too many bummy black men seeding up black women. Black community is toast, no amount of scraping will save it.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Facts.

Especially with Gen Z females, they have more education and are simply "doing better" than their male counterparts. There are LOTS of reasons for this and it's not all on men.....but this is the reality out in the streets.

The top-shelf nikkas in 1975, 2005 and 2025 have most of the same attributes. What's changed is that a middling dude in 1975 could still pull decent women for long-term shyt. Nowadays, the yung bois are struggling even with that.

Brehs my age (mid 30s to mid 40s) know that pulling women for long term relationships wasn't that hard. The only big challenge was juggling a lot of short term shyt since women are wayyyyy more picky about one-night stand dikk than relationship dikk.

Young fellas should focus on themselves. When you got your trade school/college/military/entrepreneur shyt figured out.....decide if you want to be a playa, serial monogamist or just find "The One." Don't lower your expectations. If she wants a good looking baller, she needs to be able to cook & clean. If she wants traditional roles...it's gotta work both ways. If she's more "new age" then she better be making money or have a plan too.

Y'all keep saying this, but the salary isn't matching up.

Black men still make more on average than black women despite much higher incarceration rates and less college degrees.

Median annual earnings by sex, race and Hispanic ethnicity

www.dol.gov

 

[FTBS]

I see what he's saying, but he's also leaving out women's baseline standards have gotten ridiculous.

Actually the opposite is true. You used to have to court a woman, demonstrate you could provide for her, and commit to her before sniffing the drawls. nikkas aint even taking chicks on dates no more.
You had to dress up and have charm and woo a chick with your words. nikkas be out here looking horrible and smelling worse, barely able to put a sentence together getting ass. nikkas pumping and dumping and leaving chicks to care for the kids left and right. Way too many dudes living off they mama or the chick they smashing.

You cant confuse social media posts for real life. Same chicks talking bout this restaurant aint good enough or a nikka gotta have this much money or the trips she wanna go on got a homeless baby daddy that didnt even take her outside yet he cracked raw within hours.

 

[Apprentice]

I don’t really care bout the convos on the state of black women no mo shyt don’t pay me nun

KevOnStage is a good dude tho, he an ally to me

 

[Vandelay]

Actually the opposite is true. You used to have to court a woman, demonstrate you could provide for her, and commit to her before sniffing the drawls. nikkas aint even taking chicks on dates no more.
You had to dress up and have charm and woo a chick with your words. nikkas be out here looking horrible and smelling worse, barely able to put a sentence together getting ass. nikkas pumping and dumping and leaving chicks to care for the kids left and right. Way too many dudes living off they mama or the chick they smashing.

You cant confuse social media posts for real life. Same chicks talking bout this restaurant aint good enough or a nikka gotta have this much money or the trips she wanna go on got a homeless baby daddy that didnt even take her outside yet he cracked raw within hours.

I agree, there's that too. I just can't quantify anecdotal stories. We all have them; dudes I know with the most out of wedlock kids often have little to show for themselves; and we know it's a lot. I'm just going by standards women say they want to get in the door according to surveys I've seen; make more than them, white collar career, be taller than me, clear communication, intentional effort, mutual respect, holla at the proper time (which happens to often be never). Often, all of this tends to be one-sided. Digital presence is one that's coming on my radar, lol like wtf...

There should be baselines, but the statistical probability often doesn't align with those baselines.

 

[FTBS]

I agree, there's that too. I just can't quantify anecdotal stories. We all have them; dudes I know with the most out of wedlock kids often have little to show for themselves; and we know it's a lot. I'm just going by standards women say they want to get in the door according to surveys I've seen; make more than them, white collar career, be taller than me, clear communication, intentional effort, mutual respect, holla at the proper time (which happens to often be never). Often, all of this tends to be one-sided. Digital presence is one that's coming on my radar, lol like wtf...

There should be baselines, but the statistical probability often doesn't align with those baselines.

After taking a Stats class, I was done with statistics. You can find stats saying anything. Of course you dont want to judge everything based on anecdotal evidence but I mean...we all be seeing this shyt. The internet gives people license to cap. Chicks talking all crazy but got a nikka living with her. Dudes talking all crazy but begging and tricking in chicks DMs. People straight play characters online.

 

[Wild self]

"Standards" means superficial BS and nothing about character or substance, FYI.