Parents of girl i went out with looking down on me for my career. Feedback needed

[OwenReese]

I and a young lady that i know from the homeless shelter were out in the mall yesterday and having a good time. She is Indian, but I am giving her a chance. We get along really well and i really love her sense of humor. She is also very smart and knows how to cook. Completely by chance, we came upon her parents in another store after we left the mall. They were like fresh out of India it appeared. After the introductions, i noticed her father was looking at me kind of sideways. It was like he was judging me and it made me uncomfortable. He slipped in the question 'so what do you do for a living?' He emphasized the 'you' like I was trash. When i told him that i am a General Surgeon, his eyes narrowed. Apparently, many of her relatives are in medicine as well, and they look down on General Surgery. The conversation ended shortly afterwards, but i could tell they were not impressed. Is this worth pursuing further bc first of all, there may be racial problems now that i see the parents. And also, her father has no right to look down on my career when all he does is own a gas station.

edit: @flea, @2meo, please, what would a virgin do in this situation?

 

[MikelArteta]

You work at a homeless shelter?
You met her at a homeless shelter?

Your a surgeon
And that isn't good enough for someone who lives at a homeless shelter


:dahwll:

 

[OwenReese]

You work at a homeless shelter?
You met her at a homeless shelter?

Your a surgeon
And that isn't good enough for someone who lives at a homeless shelter


:dahwll:

We both volunteer at a homeless shelter. LOL, you have a lot of different pictures of the woman in your avatar.

 

[Doobie Doo]

If they look down upon you then you look down upon them. No matter what they say to you just remember in their country they still wipe their ass with their left hands. Next time you see her dad shake his hand with your left hand cuz that's a sign of disrespect in their country.

 

[TheArchitect]

you should of told him that you work in the entertainment industry, then proceed to make a little "independent film" with his daughter.....

 

[MikelArteta]

She's the goat

And ah I see, I guess your not Indian right?

Indian parents are for the most part

We both volunteer at a homeless shelter. LOL, you have a lot of different pictures of the woman in your avatar.

 

[OwenReese]

If they look down upon you then you look down upon them. No matter what they say to you just remember in their country they still wipe their ass with their left hands. Next time you see her dad shake his hand with your left hand cuz that's a sign of disrespect in their country.

You are cold and ruthless

 

[OwenReese]

She's the goat

And ah I see, I guess your not Indian right?

Indian parents are for the most part

No i am black but i date anyone i am attracted to. I have heard that Indian people can be racist and i have been wondering lately about interracial family dynamics. My own family never treated anyone differently bc they were white but in my experience, many whites cannot handle being around black people.

 

[Doobie Doo]

You are cold and ruthless

Man, fugg them white washed muthafukkers. The racism there is as bad as it is here. The only difference is its india people being racist against other indian people. At least in America its two different races conflicting and not the same group of people. Them be the worse mofos and I bet her parents are dark as shyt too.

 

[MikelArteta]

Old school Indians view blacks the same way ugly ass ghandi did

My aunt married a Indian man even moved to India and his family tried to kill her

It doesn't matter if you were the president of the USA you wouldn't be good enough

No i am black but i date anyone i am attracted to. I have heard that Indian people can be racist and i have been wondering lately about interracial family dynamics. My own family never treated anyone differently bc they were white but in my experience, many whites cannot handle being around black people.

 

[How Sway?]

thrown them in the bushes

 

[Money Be Green]

fukk what that dot head says.

 

[OwenReese]

Old school Indians view blacks the same way ugly ass ghandi did

My aunt married a Indian man even moved to India and his family tried to kill her

It doesn't matter if you were the president of the USA you wouldn't be good enough

i would never leave my country for someone else

 

[the cac mamba]

breh

that family aint shyt to be looking down on you for being a surgeon. BUSHES

 

[OwenReese]

So you would not consider being with someone if her parents or family did not like you. You could just not see the family, but then your kids would still be around them.