International Playa
Playa with a Passport
If this guy is getting the run around in the dating game, an average & below average guy going through hell

and projected your own insecurity about dudes not getting women.
This sounds like a case of him getting in his own way. He's in the dating world and is actively consuming content he doesn't agree with from YouTube grifters like AMS. I don't care how "strong minded" you believe you are, consuming enough of that content will begin to color your perception of the dating landscape, it will impact the ways you read interpersonal experiences with women.
There's no shortage of brothers doing very well for themselves here in the states when it comes to dating and it largely comes down to the fact that they are in the field putting in work and learning from real world experiences instead of listening to YouTubers and trying to apply what they learned with women.
Brothers that leave the states to date are quietly conceding defeat and running into the arms of women that will have a difficult time distinguishing them from tricks.
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Agree with most of what you said but dont agree with the framing of conceding defeat.. Expanding your options as a man should never be seen that way. If a dude is trying to "win" the dating game and cant find a path locally but feels he has better options abroad then that is a plus for him. If a dude is on sidelines not getting any play but does when he expands his options then that is good for everyone involved.This sounds like a case of him getting in his own way. He's in the dating world and is actively consuming content he doesn't agree with from YouTube grifters like AMS. I don't care how "strong minded" you believe you are, consuming enough of that content will begin to color your perception of the dating landscape, it will impact the ways you read interpersonal experiences with women.
There's no shortage of brothers doing very well for themselves here in the states when it comes to dating and it largely comes down to the fact that they are in the field putting in work and learning from real world experiences instead of listening to YouTubers and trying to apply what they learned with women.
Brothers that leave the states to date are quietly conceding defeat and running into the arms of women that will have a difficult time distinguishing them from tricks.
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i got a Japanese exchange students number and she called me first, stays giving me good morning texts, and swallows my nut
breh has a point
