I hate when this rhetoric comes up.
Speaking from experience, as someone who has no tatts, is in STEM, like video games etc
I've never had a problem getting a date with black women. Ive never seen other dudes, regular, 9-5 cats, have trouble getting women.
Now, is there a certain segment that only dates ballers? yea, but those are chicks i wouldnt even waste my time on. I already know whats up.
Thats like when women say dudes only messing with strippers and ig models with fake bootys or thats all we like. Again, reality is not aligning with these statements.
There are plenty of cute, regular chics (not IG models or strippers) that fukk with regular brehs.
Whats more likley is, the chicks yall lust after, aint in yall league, and the chicks that want you, you dont want. (as someone pointed out in this thread)