people in relationships are so boring

Slystallion

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Lol wtf

I dont need the advice dude

Believe it or not guys... im a young business leader, personable, dress well etc. Dont need you guys talking to me like Im a criminal because I dont sit at hkme with some ho watching netflix

This is the type of condescending bullshyt im talking about

just trying to help man, but find new female single friends to hang with they won't have a problem hanging out.
 

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I dont necessarily need a wingman

But it would be nice to have friends that arent boring domesticated types

That feeling that they are hanging out to humor you... very smug

The attitude of "I alreqdy got my woman, im here for your sake"

Its like they lose the idea of having fun for the sake of it being fun

You just got some lame potnas, I go out with my potnas and play wingman all the time. I'm out there having fun cause like you said I got somebody at home so this is entertainment to me. Its a whole lot easier to go out and have fun when worried about trying to impress chicks.

But then, when I'm getting attention and have the hoes laughing and shyt, thats when they be like :comeon: "don't you already got a woman bruh, let us cook" And then I be like :leon: ......... Oh :umad:

And yeah, I probably have the :smugdraper: on when I see the homies out here just trying to get a chick number and salvage anything for the night while I know I'm have a chick waiting for me when I get home.

The best thing I did when I was single was got a girl best friend/WingChick
If I ever mentioned a chick was cute, she'd immediately go and start a conversation with them and bring back to the table or call me over. Instant ice breaker

shyt was beautiful :ahh:
 
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My friends put me to zzzz these days

If youre already a domesticated house cat in your early 20s off yourself. Theyre already developing corny married guy swag its disgusting... and they mess my game up at bars when they talk to hoes about puppies and shyt

So you're really just mad your boy has more game than you do.
 
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i feel for what the OP is tryna get at. i myself just hit the big 3-0 and been happily single for the past 3plus years. of my friends i know that are in relationships, i feel im more happy than they are, due to the games/drama/stress that comes wit being in one of those. however, i dont knock their hussle. however most their gfs tend to not want them to hang out wit me.....one of em said one time to me "your the guy every girlfriend hates their boyfriend having as a friend" :smugdraper:
 

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Lol wtf

I dont need the advice dude

Believe it or not guys... im a young business leader, personable, dress well etc. Dont need you guys talking to me like Im a criminal because I dont sit at hkme with some ho watching netflix

This is the type of condescending bullshyt im talking about

And you aren't condescending to the dude chilling at home?:rudy:

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When did chillin with a bytch and watching netflix become a problem?

Some of the best weekends I ever had consist of a bytch,Netflix and some piff:ahh::blessed:

I dont understand these kids anymore:snoop:
 

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this nikka cant catch a hint for shyt :deadmanny:

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Reading the thread OP just sounds like a loser...

I think even if they were Single they would find any excuse not to hang out with you...

:manny:
 

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Insignificant posting from an insignificant poster
No offense, but you sound jealous of what ya man's got, breh.

And who uses a dude in a committed relationship as a wingman at a bar anyway? Fck you expecting from him? Dont you have any other single boys who wont activate your jealousy that you dont have a woman, and also be better wingmen at bars or clubs?



Epiphany alert.


Holy shiit Batstan... i believe i was hatin'!


Damn. But i'm happy for my friends in deep, meaningful relationships (but i didn't see the light cuz i was never really in one so my understanding of it was vicarious - which is type unauthentic on some variant j's type stee-leaux).


Was kinda dissapointed when my dudes who were single, got into a relationship and weren't avail as wingmen anymore (but in retrospect, they weren't good at that anyway, too reserved, relied too much on their looks, and that caused the girl i was going for to shift their attention to the winger. The wingee gets duped. LOL!).


Any who... i can emphatize for JG's dilemma cuz losing a friend to relationships (especially during that era, early 20's when you kick it hard and experiment with new shiit/drugs, events, venues, parties and can travel, etc.) - it's tough.


Being as old as i is, let me tell you this John; Just keep your social circle voluminous enough to where you can have kick it reserves. Now, i know they don't hold the same weight and dynamic as the ones you were always tight with, but building a bond with an acquaintance or new friend will open up your eyes and expand your horizons to new life territories.


Enjoy your youth and don't fret cuz you lost homies to the game of love.


I always tell my young kinfoke that you have to respect other peoples relationships cuz by the end of the day, you ain't the one putting the spin on they proverbial hamster wheel - THEY IS!

You just have to take it as it is and be supportive.


Jock strap.


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