People U Don't Like, Show U What U Don't Like About Urself???

[Super TD Jakes]

People U Don't Like, Show U What U Don't Like About Urself???

Have u heard this saying before??? I know I'm not the only one

Do you think this statement is true??? Who Do U Dislike Simply Because They Remind U Of Urself

I can't think of an example at the moment.

 

[Rhapscallion Démone]

Yeah I think that's true to a certain extent.

 

[Super TD Jakes]

Yeah I think that's true to a certain extent.

Yeah, like not true entirely but like a certain percentage someone may mirror something back 2 u that u may not necessarily like about yourself on a conscious or subconscious level!

 

[hayesc0]

I don't think this is true it can be but I reject it as a general rule.

 

[SunZoo]

You are god.

What you see in front of you is your reflection in some way shape or form. Those people/things you don't 'like' are still very much 'you'...learning to relax your judgement is paramount.

A lot of people look at how the god of the Christian bible is and be like damn he sounds like an a$$hole, that was the point..given the power to pass judgement over the things you had a hand in creating, would you be able to find room/reason for things you brought into existence? "Satan" (simply means enemy, opposition) included?

These are your shadow aspects.

Perfect example on a macro level is our president. As trash as he is, he is exactly what we collectively deserve. He is the embodiment of everything ugly about 'US'. And in a round about way is serving a higher purpose by putting those ugly parts of ourselves such as greed, racism and disregard for the truth on the table to be made peace with.

 

[Address_Unknown]

Spoiler: Nobody 'cause

I love myself.

 

[BLΔCK⁂W⊙LF]

If the logic doesn't make sense, it is wrong.

If a person does not like pedophiles or rapists, it doesn't mean he embodies those very characteristics that make up the pedophile or rapist.

 

[Super TD Jakes]

You are god.

What you see in front of you is your reflection in some way shape or form. Those people/things you don't 'like' are still very much 'you'...learning to relax your judgement is paramount.

A lot of people look at how the god of the Christian bible is and be like damn he sounds like an a$$hole, that was the point..given the power to pass judgement over the things you had a hand in creating, would you be able to find room/reason for things you brought into existence? "Satan" (simply means enemy, opposition) included?

These are your shadow aspects.

Perfect example on a macro level is our president. As trash as he is, he is exactly what we collectively deserve. He is the embodiment of everything ugly about 'US'. And in a round about way is serving a higher purpose by putting those ugly parts of ourselves such as greed, racism and disregard for the truth on the table to be made peace with.

Had 2 rep!!! Gave me some new understanding breh!!! So the shadow aspects of ourselves we don't like are mirrored by others so if one stopped judging others would that be reflected by the way others treat said person? In other words would one attract others who wouldn't judge them, once they themselves stopped judging others???

 

[SunZoo]

Had 2 rep!!! Gave me some new understanding breh!!! So the shadow aspects of ourselves we don't like are mirrored by others so if one stopped judging others would that be reflected by the way others treat said person? In other words would one attract others who wouldn't judge them, once they themselves stopped judging others???

You can't stand in front of a mirror and frown and expect your reflection to smile back, you gotta go first, "be the change" as it were.

This is not to say you are at fault, placing blame is de-powerment. But as an aspect of the ONE, you are response-able. You have the ability to respond to what you see, the ability to assign meaning to the world around you and whether you understand it or not, how you call it has an impact.

If you could look at the world with unconditionally loving, forgiving eyes you will find that the world will show you unconditional love and forgiveness. That doesn't mean condone things you don't agree with, it's beyond like/dislike. I don't like murder yet as a man who has witnessed a lot of violence I am fully aware of my own capacity for murder and not just what I deem to be justifiable murder. The same monster I see out in the world lies beneath the surface of my mind as well. I don't like pedophilia but I understand the cycle of trauma, abuse and compulsion. I don't like rape or rapists. I have never raped anybody but there have been times I have been less than charming with women. I understand how the conditioning of our society can easily make sexuality a weapon by those who lack the empathy and self awareness to see what they are doing to THEMSELVES.

Because that's what's really going on...when we inflict pain and condemn others, we are doing it to ourselves, hence the adage "thou shall not judge". The more we recognize ourselves in others, the more peace and equilibrium we can achieve.

 

[Super TD Jakes]

You can't stand in front of a mirror and frown and expect your reflection to smile back, you gotta go first, "be the change" as it were.

This is not to say you are at fault, placing blame is de-powerment. But as an aspect of the ONE, you are response-able. You have the ability to respond to what you see, the ability to assign meaning to the world around you and whether you understand it or not, how you call it has an impact.

If you could look at the world with unconditionally loving, forgiving eyes you will find that the world will show you unconditional love and forgiveness. That doesn't mean condone things you don't agree with, it's beyond like/dislike. I don't like murder yet as a man who has witnessed a lot of violence I am fully aware of my own capacity for murder and not just what I deem to be justifiable murder. The same monster I see out in the world lies beneath the surface of my mind as well. I don't like pedophilia but I understand the cycle of trauma, abuse and compulsion. I don't like rape or rapists. I have never raped anybody but there have been times I have been less than charming with women. I understand how the conditioning of our society can easily make sexuality a weapon by those who lack the empathy and self awareness to see what they are doing to THEMSELVES.

Because that's what's really going on...when we inflict pain and condemn others, we are doing it to ourselves, hence the adage "thou shall not judge". The more we recognize ourselves in others, the more peace and equilibrium we can achieve.

Breh, you need 2 write a book or start a religion that is some damn good advice! I have a big problem with forgiveness, I remember 2 well!!!

Thanks!!!

 

[Mac Brown]

People won't be able to answer this question properly because this statement relates to the sub-concious.

 

[Super TD Jakes]

People won't be able to answer this question properly because this statement relates to the sub-concious.

Exactly! On a sidenote do you know any "real" proven ways or methods for re-programming the subconscious mind??? Doctors say that 95% of a persons actions and decisions are made by the subconscious mind on the subconscious level.