Personality deal breakers...

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I think I would do certain things and not take the other persons feelings, or thoughts into account. Like hanging out with certain people, and doing certain things. Even though some of the people he introduced me to...but I could see where he was coming from in hindsight.



Nice.


Last week, my girl axed me if i still wanted to be in a relationship or be single.


Of course, we're laying in bed at 11 pm and i ain't tryna get kicked out.


So naturally i said, "What?! How you gonna axe me something so ludacris in nature? *in future voice* I WANNA BE WITCHU!!!"


I think her issue is that i be kicking it with my own friends every weekend and she wants to tag along with. The thing is, i spend practically every other waking
moment with her (when i'm not at work or gym). So its week days after work, the weekend day time, some fridays/sats (when i'm not kicking it with the homies).


Another reason why she's so adamant about asking such questions is cuz she can't monitor me when i'm out and aboot... like, who am i talking to? Who's that bytch
tryna say hi to me? Etc. She's really concerned aboot potentially losing me. I don't know if its cuz she's afraid of being alone or she really likes me. Hard to say. But at
29... like that dating over 30 thread, it's kinda tough if you at that age for a womens and ain't snatched up yet.


A part of me does want to be single and chase chicks... but the 32 year old side of me just wants solidarity and consistency/dependability and maturation of due process of love.


Who knows if i'll find somebody like her. Sure she's kinda thick/curvy, but she's a real solid person and i can always lean on her if she hits the fan.


But here i am, being a bad boy; still interacting with random women, hitting on customers, flirting with the lady at the check stand, etc.


Boys will be boys... and i was a flower growing in autumn.



A late bloomer.
 

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My big turn off... someone with no sense of humor. Another one is someone who doesn't know anything. Like you reference an old song or TV show or something and they are :dwillhuh:



Yeah, the first one is big for me. But your latter comment is just as big. I need my broads to be up on current events/social themes and pop culture...


And of course, big on music and media.


That's just me dog. And y'all know my wit game is not soo bad, but many times i'll express a feeling in metaphoric terms or exclaim a joke... and for a lot of bytches its like they live near an airport...


... cuz shiit is constantly flying over their heads.



Most women are just fukkin' robots, breiagh.


They just wanna get a man who pays for manicures and automobills and listen to destiny's children.




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-no ambition/weedhead chick
-inability to be professional/classy in public
-hyperreligious/fundamentalist or if annoying reddit/*****/internet atheist
-overall negative attitude/energy
-airheaded
-racist/prejudice
-hates trying new things
-acts childlike all the time/inability to be mature
-super slutty/overtly sexual
-depressed all the time/low-self esteem personality

Luckily for me, this screens out most fruitcakes so I eat good whenever I see something I like. There are a lot of good quality girls, you just have to know how to look.:myman:
 

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Just an observation

Just like on dating sites

No a$$holes, I want a faithful guy with his own place, a job and a car. Im a girl I like to be spoiled Lol, I deserve respect.

The last dude she was smashing was a a$$hole that was unfaithful lived his moms basement had no job, she had to drive him around. Never spent Money on her and never respected.

Yet she slobbered on his dikk for months even years.


#nodaysoff
 

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Just an observation

Just like on dating sites

No a$$holes, I want a faithful guy with his own place, a job and a car. Im a girl I like to be spoiled Lol, I deserve respect.

The last dude she was smashing was a a$$hole that was unfaithful lived his moms basement had no job, she had to drive him around. Never spent Money on her and never respected.

Yet she slobbered on his dikk for months even years.
It seems exhausting to keep up this level of disdain for an entire gender. Just an observation :ld:
 

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Nice.


Last week, my girl axed me if i still wanted to be in a relationship or be single.


Of course, we're laying in bed at 11 pm and i ain't tryna get kicked out.


So naturally i said, "What?! How you gonna axe me something so ludacris in nature? *in future voice* I WANNA BE WITCHU!!!"


I think her issue is that i be kicking it with my own friends every weekend and she wants to tag along with. The thing is, i spend practically every other waking
moment with her (when i'm not at work or gym). So its week days after work, the weekend day time, some fridays/sats (when i'm not kicking it with the homies).


Another reason why she's so adamant about asking such questions is cuz she can't monitor me when i'm out and aboot... like, who am i talking to? Who's that bytch
tryna say hi to me? Etc. She's really concerned aboot potentially losing me. I don't know if its cuz she's afraid of being alone or she really likes me. Hard to say. But at
29... like that dating over 30 thread, it's kinda tough if you at that age for a womens and ain't snatched up yet.


A part of me does want to be single and chase chicks... but the 32 year old side of me just wants solidarity and consistency/dependability and maturation of due process of love.


Who knows if i'll find somebody like her. Sure she's kinda thick/curvy, but she's a real solid person and i can always lean on her if she hits the fan.


But here i am, being a bad boy; still interacting with random women, hitting on customers, flirting with the lady at the check stand, etc.


Boys will be boys... and i was a flower growing in autumn.



A late bloomer.

Yea I understand completely. My boyfriend was a homebody. I like to go out, not to the club, but to museums, concerts, comedy shows, try new foods etc. He would always tell me he was just a simple country boy. I understand that, but I don't see a problem with expanding horizons. I would ask, and if he would say no, I would just go by myself or with some friends. I'm kind of a loner sometimes, and he would act hurt that I wanted to do things alone…so I try to include people in my adventures now lol.
 

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For the sake of not being too redundant, I'll leave it at one:

Being a "boyfriend" girl or the clingy s/o that throws their friends into the bushes anytime they date someone. No sense of individuality.

Such turn-off because then they become totally dependent on you for ALL of their companionship and help. Dating becomes a chore because it's like having a child instead of a S/O.
 
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