None of my friends and I (Black, different kind of Asians, Caribbean ) have ever accepted advances from cops or firefighters, and these dudes are AGGRESSIVE horndogs here. I don't even do any bad things, but I am paranoid/fearful of them.
The worst: I was once stuck outside of my building along with my dogs and other tenants due to an evacuation and fire, and the entire time, this one cop kept hitting on me instead of doing his job. I told him I already had a partner, but he kept on asking if he could be on the reserve list, if he could just take me out to coffee, etc no matter how many times I told him no politely. Once we got back in the building a few hours later, I thought I had escaped him and took a nap. Woke up to him knocking in my door to "check up" on me and to tell me my dude was lucky.
I never told him which unit I lived in
