#BOTHSIDES
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How often yall do it? What’s the coli’s take? 
And/or how often do they approach you 
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Poll: How often do you approach women?
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CreepyMcCreeperson
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Married.
When I was single, I didn’t care for women approaching me, because most of the women who approached me weren’t women I was into physically, and if they were, I didn’t feel the need to put much effort in. I always put more effort into women I pursued. When a woman pursued me, it was like instant smash potential, never anyone I thought I’d take seriously in a relationship. You already know you can smash, because she basically handed herself to you. But overall, I never like being put on the spot like that, because most of the time, I was saying no, or just taking her number to be polite.
When I was single, I didn’t care for women approaching me, because most of the women who approached me weren’t women I was into physically, and if they were, I didn’t feel the need to put much effort in. I always put more effort into women I pursued. When a woman pursued me, it was like instant smash potential, never anyone I thought I’d take seriously in a relationship. You already know you can smash, because she basically handed herself to you. But overall, I never like being put on the spot like that, because most of the time, I was saying no, or just taking her number to be polite.
I approach my woman daily.
But if you speaking to the would-be single side of my mind, I see women every day where I think "If I wasn't in a situation, she would get my best opener."
I actually stopped approaching in my mid-20s when I felt like I wasn't on even ground anymore. It's one thing to be broke and making the best of life in highschool, but I got shyt jobs and the women IN those shyt jobs were usually pretty lousy. I wanted to eventually take off in my career and get someone on a similar trajectory. Call it social self loathing. It was almost like TLC "Scrubs" was playing in my head even though I had my own car. With the money I make now and how I feel about myself, approaching would be easy as fukk.
But if you speaking to the would-be single side of my mind, I see women every day where I think "If I wasn't in a situation, she would get my best opener."
I actually stopped approaching in my mid-20s when I felt like I wasn't on even ground anymore. It's one thing to be broke and making the best of life in highschool, but I got shyt jobs and the women IN those shyt jobs were usually pretty lousy. I wanted to eventually take off in my career and get someone on a similar trajectory. Call it social self loathing. It was almost like TLC "Scrubs" was playing in my head even though I had my own car. With the money I make now and how I feel about myself, approaching would be easy as fukk.
LiveFromLondon
Superstar
Been a long minute
Cryptocurrency Scarface
Coinbased
Bars /clubs I have stopped going though for some time
dating apps/online
If I am serious it might be through a mutual friend
This chasing a woman down the street or grocery store isn’t for me in 2024
dating apps/online
If I am serious it might be through a mutual friend
This chasing a woman down the street or grocery store isn’t for me in 2024
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Dating apps & when I go out.
My uncle in his late 40s, married, breh still approaches women every where, in the streets, supermarket, club, car park etc. Women are surprised because most men don't approach anymore.
My uncle in his late 40s, married, breh still approaches women every where, in the streets, supermarket, club, car park etc. Women are surprised because most men don't approach anymore.
UncleTomFord15
Veteran
Last time I did it was like a week ago. Think I did it twice that week.
thefloorislava
All Star
Monthly if I’m not going out much. At least once a night out if I’m going to bars, clubs or parties 
. Never been afraid to approach women in the right environment.
. Never been afraid to approach women in the right environment.
WaveCapsByOscorp™
2021 Grammy Award Winner
What you mean to ask is how often do you just try to get the attention of the opposite sex without genuine, organic interest.
Which my reply is never.
Which my reply is never.
#BOTHSIDES
Superstar
Never too lateIt’s been a while
I’m working on it tho.
idonttouchgrass
Superstar
You tell me
