Excerpts (Full Story Below): The night I found out I was going to be a mom I sat down next to my husband Kevin, clutching the pregnancy test in one hand and holding his hand with the other, the three minutes waiting for the test results felt like forever....
As the test turned from the little hourglass into a sign that read ‘Pregnant: 1-2 Weeks’ I looked at my husband and began to cry. I couldn’t handle the wave of emotions that came over me. As for him, he was thrilled to be a dad. He’s always been the type whom you could tell wanted to be a father since they were younger, as he was always taking care of those around him. That’s just his personality.
I gripped his hand tighter and nodded while continuing to cry. I was happy. With his next breath he said, “I can’t wait to tell Sarah.” And in that instance I knew I had the perfect partners to start a family with. Sarah is my girlfriend and together she, Kevin, and I were about to begin a new journey as we started our family.
I’m sure that sounds confusing, so I guess it is best I should start from the beginning. From the moment I met my husband through our mutual friends, he and I spoke about how I’ve never really believed in committing myself to one man or one woman for the rest of my life. I was upfront from the start that I am polyamorous and he accepted me for all that I am.
Whenever I had dated someone monogamously, I never felt whole. It always felt as though there was something missing. When I met my husband, I knew he was the only man that I wanted to be with for the rest of my life. ...but I still longed for the other piece to our puzzle. I missed being in a relationship with a woman.
Then, I met Sarah. I met Sarah because I swiped right on an ever popular dating app, and from day one as I did with my husband, I told Sarah everything. I told her I had a husband (fiancé at the time, actually), I told her that he knew and accepted that I was searching for a girlfriend, and I told her that above anything else I wanted her to be comfortable with everything before we moved forward.
What a lot of people don’t understand is how much work a poly relationship can be. You have to have complete honesty and openness by all partners in order for anything to work.
So like any other family wanting to have a baby, we started trying. Barely a minute later, I was pregnant.
When I told Sarah, I sat her down in our bedroom alone,.... I showed her the pregnancy test and told her she was going to be a mom. She was speechless, but like Kevin, she asked if I was alright.
I hugged her tightly and shortly after we emerged from our bedroom, Kevin went over to her and gave her a hug saying “you’re going to be a mom!” He must have been able to tell that she was scared sh-tless so he said “everything is going to be alright.” Words cannot express how much love I felt surge through my body when I saw that. Kevin and Sarah truly love one another, and they let me love them. So, our journey began.
Full story link: I was in a committed relationship with two people—and then I got pregnant.
Her social media was posted on the article but I'm at work and that's blocked
if anyone wants to post her pic she is @LizzieLeis on twitter apparently? 
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that's a lot of movement going on. bedframe of da gawds
