Post things your parents advised/warned you about when it comes to marriage and relationships

[Dev2103]

were hands off just said theyd accept whoever i bring home but would prefer a black girl...mostly moms #oldblack. had to figure the rest out on my own

 

[Chef]

Moms told me not to fukk anyone at the job. Did it anyway.

 

[42 Monks]

I was one of those kids who were told the ABSOLUTELY WRONG thing. My childhood suffered immensely because of it....

Basically the game raised me....

My dad had the worst advice ever for me. Legit fukked my head up through my early 20s. "Practice on people you don't respect"

Sounds cute until you're around people you do respect and have no idea how to deal with them.

Once I realized to generally do the opposite of my dad, I was good.

 

[TheArchitect]

My dad had the worst advice ever for me. Legit fukked my head up through my early 20s. "Practice on people you don't respect"

Sounds cute until you're around people you do respect and have no idea how to deal with them.

Once I realized to generally do the opposite of my dad, I was good.

Damn....that's some twisted advice....

I was pretty much fed the Disney bullshyt....boooyyyy, did I suffer.....

 

[Yup]

Never wholly depend on a man financially.

 

[intruder]

My mom - Never loan a woman you like money. Women dont give money back and you'll forever hold it against her. Just give it to her

She was right
My dad - Never fukk your woman on a wednesday night

Some superstitious sh!t he believed

 

[Bless't]

My father told me not to get fat because men don't like fat women. And to buy new drawes because no man wants to look at raggedy panties. I must admit it was one of the most uncomfortable conversations of my life.

 

[M'gann]

From my Dad

-have your own money (and things) and never rely on a man financially.

 

[Rawtid]

Nothing.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

If she acting on that bullshyt, let mama know so she can beat her ass

 

[intruder]

Don't put all your eggs in one basket, if you're not married, you're single.

Spoiler

Your mom was a wise woman. Every thing you posted there is right on point. Except I dont get the feelings part but im a man and we never get those, anyway.

But for real listen to her

Been thinking about this particular part of your post a lot. I like it but I'm not sure if it's for my own selfish ways.

 

[PeridotPuss]

Been thinking about this particular part of your post a lot. I like it but I'm not sure if it's for my own selfish ways.

It's reality tho. Relationships are pure choice. You get what you choose.

Unless somebody promised God to love me forever, I just don't think I should base my life choices or connections around them. I'm single. And I love it.

If you wanna talk about it, just PM me. You're a good poster.

 

[Westcoastnative]

My mom and dad never talked to me about relationships.

They taught me everything but that.