Pressuring for sex vs pressuring for marriage?

[Yup]

What is the difference between the two? Both can end up in unfavourable outcomes. So why do some think one is ok and the other isnt?

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

negged

 

[Action Mike]

Sex and marriage are NOT on an equal plane.

Stop comparing them.

 

[360dagod]

I don't pressure for either..

I just move pieces on the chessboard with a purpose

 

[ThaBronxBully]

Horrible Thread

 

[freetroit]

If you pressuring somebody for sex they probably are not attracted to you in the first place

Wack comparison to marriage

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

No difference, you shouldn't pressure. You gotta let people choose up with good convincing.

 

[Yup]

If you pressuring somebody for sex they probably are not attracted to you in the first place

Wack comparison to marriage

When i say pressure...it is coercing someone to do something they had made clear they were nit going to do. Whether through lies/emotional manipulation etc...

 

[marcuz]

sex doesn't end in divorce, tens of thousands in lawyer fees, alimony, and half your wealth gone.

 

[Yup]

sex doesn't end in divorce, tens of thousands in lawyer fees, alimony, and half your wealth.

But it can end in an std/sti or an unwanted pregnany.

 

[marcuz]

But it can end in an std/sti or an unwanted pregnany.

not if you use protection. there is no "divorce protection." women can up and decide to call it quits at any time

 

[I AM WARHOL]

Both are a recipe for disaster

 

[Action Mike]

But it can end in an std/sti or an unwanted pregnany.

Condoms and making sure your partner is checked.

If your in a relationship tomorrow, are you/how long will you make him wait?

 

[Yup]

not if you use protection. there is no "divorce protection." women can up and decide to call it quits at any time

There is no 100% protection that exist for sex neither. And it has been proven that contraceptives is not STD/STI proof.

A marriage without attachments (ie/ kids) can be dissolved. A relationship that result in a kid or std cannot. You have to live with it for the rest of your life.

Pressure on both situations is not ideal but lets kid ourselves that it is equivalent.

 

[marcuz]

There is no 100% protection that exist for sex neither. And it has been proven that contraceptives is not STD/STI proof.

A marriage without attachments (ie/ kids) can be dissolved. A relationship that result in a kid or std cannot. You have to live with it for the rest of your life.

Pressure on both situations is not ideal but lets kid ourselves that it is equivalent.

i'll take condoms 98% success rate over marriages 50% success rate any day of the week.

further more, sex is free. marriages, particularly weddings, are expensive. you aint getting that ring, @Yup, stop slut shaming men into engaging in a dangerous business contract