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Superstar
Women are quick to crow about the sexual inadequacies of men they've been with.
Men are quieter about the sexual failings of their female partners because most women are quick to cut off sexual access for numerous reasons.
Men reason that sexual access to a mediocre sex partner is better than none. So you rock that chick until you find a better one.
We all like to think that we're superior lovers. Some people are fully aware that they are not.
But why? Why are people failing to completely satisfy each other sexually when so many people are having so much sex?
Three main reasons:
1. Proper sexual technique is rarely taught. Where do you go to learn how to make love? Most people start having sex in their mid-to-late teens. Who's going to teach an underage person how to have sex? Most of us learn from TV, movies, and porn. The problem there is that's entertainment and rarely applies in real life.
2. Lack of communication. We expect our partners to know how to please us sexually. Everyone's sexuality is different. What some people hate, others love and vice versa.
3. We think sex is simple. Men think all we have to do it put it in and move around. Women think that their vagene is magic and does all of the work necessary.
Beware the illusion of good sex. Men will enjoy having wack sex with a baddie just because she fine. Women will enjoy wack sex just because they're in love with the guy.
Look back at your own history. How many superstars in the bunch? How many were decent to petty good? How many were trash?
Men are quieter about the sexual failings of their female partners because most women are quick to cut off sexual access for numerous reasons.
Men reason that sexual access to a mediocre sex partner is better than none. So you rock that chick until you find a better one.
We all like to think that we're superior lovers. Some people are fully aware that they are not.
But why? Why are people failing to completely satisfy each other sexually when so many people are having so much sex?
Three main reasons:
1. Proper sexual technique is rarely taught. Where do you go to learn how to make love? Most people start having sex in their mid-to-late teens. Who's going to teach an underage person how to have sex? Most of us learn from TV, movies, and porn. The problem there is that's entertainment and rarely applies in real life.
2. Lack of communication. We expect our partners to know how to please us sexually. Everyone's sexuality is different. What some people hate, others love and vice versa.
3. We think sex is simple. Men think all we have to do it put it in and move around. Women think that their vagene is magic and does all of the work necessary.
Beware the illusion of good sex. Men will enjoy having wack sex with a baddie just because she fine. Women will enjoy wack sex just because they're in love with the guy.
Look back at your own history. How many superstars in the bunch? How many were decent to petty good? How many were trash?
