Psychologist explains his hoe phase and how he learned to stop chasing bad girls with edge and settle for a boring nice girl.

[NoirDynosaur]

Men have a hoe phase?

Getting much women as possible has always been the raw nature of men. Monogamy is a recent concept introduced in society. Polygamy itself isn't a easy situation to deal with. Requires time, money and attention.

 

[old pig]

this vid is hilarious with the cat analogy…some truth to it tho

 

[old pig]

Men have a hoe phase?

Getting much women as possible has always been the raw nature of men. Monogamy is a recent concept introduced in society. Polygamy itself isn't a easy situation to deal with. Requires time, money and attention.

the thread title slightly betrays the video content…so some of y’all are commenting without understanding the path the video takes…even a 10-30 second listen will allow folks to grasp it…shyt just even read the actual vid title lol…he is not wagging a finger at men for fukking around who are fully aware of it and content with doing so…it’s more of a warning to men who get into serious but unhealthy relationships with the type of women that most men sleep around with and move on from…he never uses the word “ho phase” or admonishes men for sleeping with ho’s…just points out there are some men who consistently fall for the wrong women that leads to chaotic relationships and why…something folks talk about on here all the time

 

[OnlyOneBoss]

Men biologically can't be hoe'z so everything He says is null and void.

Ehh

I think historically though male whores just got with the females whores cause the world wasn’t that big and they knew that was their real social group

 

[JoelB]

100% accurate

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

He ain’t have to say boring , damn

Boring = No Drama​

 

[Apollo Creed]

So is he calling his significant other "boring" for the whole world to see while implying she's fugly? He sounds like a real catch for that lucky girl

hoes do the exact thing to their simp husbands. fukk that bytch

 

[Amo Husserl]

Sometimes...

Spoiler: Abstinence

You gotta take some time away from chasin' p*ssy to evaluate your life and who you wanna share it with. Accept her past as the past and heal each other.

 

[rabbid]

I've noticed a lot of women with very few redeeming features try to find a super nice, kind of dim witted dude that doesn't really stick up for himself. Maybe he has some co dependency issues, dad wasn't around growing up, or he has some overly invested view of women.

They'll be together for years just based on the strength of him deescalating and backing down from any disagreements he might have with her actions. Its usually pretty obvious because she's learned he aint going anywhere. So thats another way that men end up with train wrecks. Just being a pushover.

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

A man got to know his limitations

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Boring is a compliment

Think about those folks that put you in all that drama and bs— how many times did you have to drink? How many times you had to pick yourself up from falling?

I had a girl I really liked and we were a thing for a whole year— second half of the journey became rough and I felt like it was all my fault— in a sense it was because she’s a walking red flag

Every time I hear about her or see her she’s got a new man and always trying to get her life back on track lol

When you look back on those type of relationships you realized taking the L was a blessing

Once you mature and grow up you realize those walking red flags have no value and could do you more harm than good

 

[WaveWhisperer]

Nobody wants to lose.





Nobody wants to lose.

 

[Canon]

his videos come across my YouTube every now and then

its usually good stuff

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

I've noticed a lot of women with very few redeeming features try to find a super nice, kind of dim witted dude that doesn't really stick up for himself. Maybe he has some co dependency issues, dad wasn't around growing up, or he has some overly invested view of women.

They'll be together for years just based on the strength of him deescalating and backing down from any disagreements he might have with her actions. Its usually pretty obvious because she's learned he aint going anywhere. So thats another way that men end up with train wrecks. Just being a pushover.

Pretty much your queue to dip if a woman tells you she's dated a$$holes in the past. Either you accept that she's learned from her actions or you move on because you think "she's using me as a break from her usual pattern and will just go back to who she usually dates"

The psychologist had his phase where he dated women he knew were trash, similar to the women who stay chasing men that ain't shyt, but he believes he changed and was able to move on. His girlfriend or wife obviously believes he's changed and he believes so too, but other women probably gave him a hard pass when they found out that he literally used to think of women like them as unattractive.