Question for ladies that have been in abusive relationships...

[sanityovar8ted]

Dont save her, she dont wanna be saved

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

No no no...not outside of a role play scenario with a safe word and stuff but that might come later. I want to help her heal. I can't hit a lady. I know because I've been beat up by several.

You can't help her heal, only she can do that.

Also, the nice guy thing never gets old and domestic abuse is never ok.

 

[Raava]

No, I will never get tired of someone respecting me as a person and treating me like it. She needs counseling, there are issues there.

I wasn't in an abusive relationship but I felt like my last ex could get to that point and probably would if I stayed with him. I don't miss it at all.

 

[The5thLetter]

She sounds like damaged goods w/ a lot of baggage. It may become explosive so I'd bounce if I were you.
I've known women that've been in abusive rships and they were never quite the same after. I think Rihanna is a good example

 

[The Burger King]

Let's ask Pretty Boy Flizzy

"You don't even cheat on her. She gettin' bored, cause, you don't even beat on her."
Like the man said, a woman would rather be beaten to death than bored to death.

 

[wild cherry blossom]

If you really love her help her to the best of your abilities and hope she helps her self also.

 

[observe]

What about S&M ..choke her, whip her, put her in a collar and have a leash and drag her around, bite her till you draw blood( some girls like that) smack her..look into some S&M forums and see what techniques you can use instead of actually punching her