Marc Spector
the 4'11 Cuban
Now forgive me but im going to assume that a huge portion of you were never married or in a majorly long term relationship (2+ years for the sake of a criteria) with the other parent of your child.
So my question is two fold:
For the women: WHY? Why would you give birth to a child when you and the man were never really serious/weren't committed by any legal means? Did the guy curve you? Were you tryna get free benefits from the guberment? Were you tryna fill a void in your life that only being a parent could fill? Anti-abortion?
For the men: Were you a piece of shyt and under the impression that you could just conduct a casual sex relationship with no contraceptives and would never face any repercussions (without ever knowing or caring about the womans position on kids?) ? Did she lie about being on the pill? Relationship gone sour? One night stand that blew up in your face?
(What spurred this on, is I have a friend on IG, a cute white girl with a nice rack, with two kids under 4, one mixed, one white. And currently dating a man who isn't the father of either. She's cool enough, so I wonder wtf went through the head of her and people in her circumstance)
*meek voice* I just wanna know
So my question is two fold:
For the women: WHY? Why would you give birth to a child when you and the man were never really serious/weren't committed by any legal means? Did the guy curve you? Were you tryna get free benefits from the guberment? Were you tryna fill a void in your life that only being a parent could fill? Anti-abortion?
For the men: Were you a piece of shyt and under the impression that you could just conduct a casual sex relationship with no contraceptives and would never face any repercussions (without ever knowing or caring about the womans position on kids?) ? Did she lie about being on the pill? Relationship gone sour? One night stand that blew up in your face?
(What spurred this on, is I have a friend on IG, a cute white girl with a nice rack, with two kids under 4, one mixed, one white. And currently dating a man who isn't the father of either. She's cool enough, so I wonder wtf went through the head of her and people in her circumstance)
*meek voice* I just wanna know
