Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

She is used to guys kissing her ass so they can have her. She is only loyal to money and at the end of the day, i pay $60 to find out this chic aint shyt. Save me more headaches and funds for me in the future.

 

wow..there HAD to be some signs that she was just a lowlife type of person, I can see an unreturned text, or a flaky weekend or something, but that? I'd like to think my judge of character is strong enough to not even allow a person like that close to me….but I could be wrong.

 

Y'all probably wondering where i've been...

Spoiler

In a boring ass relationship

While the girl is cool (or was), has her own place, whip, paralegal job, etc....


she's starting to become possessive and jelly all the time. And the sex is becoming really really ho-hum (i do all the work, she's a thicker girl
so you know how that is - but don't get it twisted, she's fit and active, runs marathons and does yoga/x-fit).


Any who, the past couple months, everything just feels like groundhog day. She's great as a person, even better as a friend (and with her maternal
qualities and faithfulness... the mother of my chul'rens).


But i'm not ready to tie the knot and have kids... and i still feel like i need excitement in relationships (or just dating someone else for the sake of it cuz
i'm bored of her).


*sighs*


I just don't know how to break it to her cuz she says i'm the best thing that's ever happened to her. I feel bad, breaghs.


.

 

There were signs when i started to get to know her. She has a high sense of entitlement and doesn't want to be accountable for her issues in her life. I wasn't look for anything serious with her, i just wanted some companionship from time to time. It all cool at the end of the day because i didn't give a damn about the money. I just know not to deal with her type again. I have no ill will towards her or anything. I have much deeper shyt to deal with right now (finding another job-getting layoff in late May). Dealing with hurt people is just going to hurt me in the long run.

 

This happened to me the last couple numbers I got. Here's the thing..

1) You need to approach older females, because they're more direct and play fewer games. The numbers I got were from chicks 20-21, but you'll have more success from broads 25+

2) Like Kevm3 said, young attractive females have a ton of options. Plenty of dudes hitting them up all the time, so they can sit back and

 

Spoiler

Not necessarily. He may be "better" in various areas and not on others. its all circumstantial. I don't tell any dude they are the best because realistically, there is always someone better . However, some chicks do tell each and every dude that shyt to gas em up when every bf is roughly the same. The majority of my ex's treated me very well and I had minimal issues with them, but immaturity,selfishness, possessiveness, insecurities, etc killed every single one of them.

But yes- most of that bullshyt is said in the honeymoon stage.

 

The biggest problem in this day and age is that people on both sides aren't getting real information and they are ultimately dopamine addicts. People love that emotional rush and they confuse that with 'being in love', which is why they are always so quick to throw away what they have for something new. Something new almost always gives you an intense blast of pleasure, but you learn the new thing isn't necessarily better than the old thing when you become familiar with the new thing. Instead of just enjoying the ride with someone who you just enjoy being around, people will throw that away because they want that circus show 'love high' feeling... which isn't even love. it's more like the 'new feeling high.

 

Spoiler

I think this thread is probably one of the best on this forum. I know that it's mainly for ya'll but I commend you and the other gentlemen for helping these brehs out who have fallen prey to these aint worth shyt females. Brotherhood at its finest

 

Dear God, you must be tired.