Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Man check this out brehs... this girl was supposed to have me come over last week and she was gonna cook for me/watch movies and what not, but she cancels last minute cause she had to work late... I say that's cool but you owe me and she says I know. So I'm talkin to her today and she's like so lets do somethin on your next day off, and I'm thinkin she's gonna make it up by cookin for me but it seems like she wants me to take her out and shyt. I wouldn't mind that but a nikka just paid his last tuition installment and I got like $2.17 in my account (forreal im broke than a bytch). :wow: I ask her what she wanna do, she says "I'm not picky" :stopitslime: and I say yeah right im gonna need some ideas and now she hasn't hit me back yet. This some bullshyt brehs... why do girls always be goin back on promises with no problem but if I were to pull the same shyt it would be fukkin WW3.

never ask a chick what she wnts to do
Tell her what you want to do

the onyl time i ask a chick what should I do or where should we go is if im on vacation
 

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get your money up then and deal with her later. :ufdup:

she ain't the only girl left in the world and you bagged her. So if for some reason she doesn't come around, take solace from the fact that you can go back out there and get a girl like her again or better.

Just talked to her... she doesn't mind that im broke right now. she knows a nikka workin and bout to graduate next month. might go on a romantic walk or some shyt.
 

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nikka I got $2 in my account :mjlol: whole paycheck and some savings went to my last tuition payment. :mjcry:

tell her to meet you at a coffee shop
spend a dollar on a small cup of coffee and voila

i dont spend money on dates
i dont spend money on women
you dont need money to date women
 

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Just talked to her... she doesn't mind that im broke right now. she knows a nikka workin and bout to graduate next month. might go on a romantic walk or some shyt.

i unno...by the sounds of it, it seems like you hoping for stuff to happen more than anything.

but hey, if ya'll do kick it and u get to fukk..more power to you. :salute:
 

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tell her to meet you at a coffee shop
spend a dollar on a small cup of coffee and voila

i dont spend money on dates
i dont spend money on women
you dont need money to date women

Emperor da gawd :mjcry: My game been so rusty. Been in a relationship for about 2-3 years. I've gotten so many numbers these past few days I be textin the wrong girls the wrong shyt. :snoop:
 

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i unno...by the sounds of it, it seems like you hoping for stuff to happen more than anything.

but hey, if ya'll do kick it and u get to fukk..more power to you. :salute:

ehhh i ain't even tryin to fukk on the first 'date' tbh. :manny: just wanna girl i can cuddle up wit in this cold weather every now and then.
 

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never ask a chick what she wnts to do
Tell her what you want to do

the onyl time i ask a chick what should I do or where should we go is if im on vacation

Yep, women are to be tag-alongs to whatever you're doing, and not the ones to be calling the shots and making the decisions on where to go... nor should men rack their brains trying to pick the perfect place to take her. What is she doing to deserve being catered to like that?

The huge problem men have in this day and age is that they are extremely indecisive. The boomer generation did an awful job in raising decisive, strong-willed and strong-minded men with principles. Instead we have wishy washy men that constantly look for approval in some form or fashion. The Bible tells us that a double minded man is unstable in all his ways. If you're going to look for approval, look for it from God. Otherwise, stand on your decisions as a man and keep it rolling.

We, as men, have to stop seeking female approval. We're here to give them an opportunity to join us in whatever we're doing, but trying to read some woman's mind and choose some activity that you think will entertain her is a wasteful endeavor. That's playing the role of the jester rather than a king. To keep it simple, do what you do, invite the woman along, and if she comes, cool. If she doesn't, cool.
 
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