I'm doin the #NoFap thing. I need to completely reset.
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I can at least see what the fuss is about
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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A.V.
reTIreMEnt: THE ALBUM (01/22) ALL DSPs
What a god awful fukking dilemma...i just KNOW some shyt like this is gonna end up happening to me one day. After all the thick, bad ass thots who weren't wifey material, one day end up meeting one that's perfectly compatible but with a "flaw" I can't get over
Keep that girl, breh
Do that, so hopefully I won't have to go through that...
Nah. You're never going to find a perfect package out there. You trade away a nice, moral chick for some 'bad' chick with all that thickness, and you find out that everyone on the block has had their turn.
Shameonyou
All Star
What a god awful fukking dilemma...i just KNOW some shyt like this is gonna end up happening to me one day. After all the thick, bad ass thots who weren't wifey material, one day end up meeting one that's perfectly compatible but with a "flaw" I can't get over
Keep that girl, breh
its eating me on the inside my dude
I literally have no reason to drop her too...worst thing is that post nut clarity if you end up losing the good chick, and smashing some random thot with a fat ass and big tities...and realizing she aint shyt...and you lost a potential wife
Man, there should be a tag on these posts. I can't look through all these pages of gems... I guess I'll start bookmarking things i find
Shameonyou
All Star
problem is my physical desires can dictate how Invested i am in a woman sometimes...basically to put it in simple terms...shes not my physical type body wise (she is facewise though)...which is what makes it so hard for me..
KingTut
Green diamonds like a dill pickle
I've had that happen before although her face was about an 8, not a 10... she was very intelligent and could hold a conversation about anything. I was never bored or thinkin about/looking at other girls around her which is rare as hell. I mean if she starts hittin the gym and doing squats she could get a little bubble but ain't nothing you can do about the titties. At the end of the day, beautiful face and personality >>>> fat ass and a GED.
A.V.
reTIreMEnt: THE ALBUM (01/22) ALL DSPs
its eating me on the inside my dude
I literally have no reason to drop her too...worst thing is that post nut clarity if you end up losing the good chick, and smashing some random thot with a fat ass and big tities...and realizing she aint shyt...and you lost a potential wife
I feel you 100% and I'm the same way, a lot of us are...But I say if you know it now (the bolded) then you'll know it later when/if you fukk it up. Now do you wanna be the stupid nikka who gotta beg for his shorty back after figuring out a creative way to drop her b/c you can't tell her your real intentions? You wanna risk losing shorty over that? Go get some strange, then forever know in the back of your head the bytches w badder bodies for the most part got higher numbers, more emotional baggage, and more relationship issues?
God is so mean
I say this...Figure out what you want at this point in life. If you're ready for wifey, and if you can TRY to not be ruled by your physical desires, keep shorty man. A chick who's really a keeper (especially when others can't see why) is a beautiful thing. But if you think your issue gonna cause you to cheat, or value her less, and you know 100% she's a good chick, don't do it to yourself, or her, breh. shyt just ain't worth it in the long run...And look on the bright side, maybe one day she'll eat her cornbread...Implants do exist. Lol just know that a womans self-image, body issues, and correcting them through surgery can open up a whole nother can of worms
Shameonyou
All Star
I feel you 100% and I'm the same way, a lot of us are...But I say if you know it now (the bolded) then you'll know it later when/if you fukk it up. Now do you wanna be the stupid nikka who gotta beg for his shorty back after figuring out a creative way to drop her b/c you can't tell her your real intentions? You wanna risk losing shorty over that? Go get some strange, then forever know in the back of your head the bytches w badder bodies for the most part got higher numbers, more emotional baggage, and more relationship issues?
God is so mean
I say this...Figure out what you want at this point in life. If you're ready for wifey, and if you can TRY to not be ruled by your physical desires, keep shorty man. A chick who's really a keeper (especially when others can't see why) is a beautiful thing. But if you think your issue gonna cause you to cheat, or value her less, and you know 100% she's a good chick, don't do it to yourself, or her, breh. shyt just ain't worth it in the long run...And look on the bright side, maybe one day she'll eat her cornbread...Implants do exist. Lol just know that a womans self-image, body issues, and correcting them through surgery can open up a whole nother can of worms
the worst part bruh is how disappointed I am in myself at letting this shyt even become an issue...as if I cant even control my sexual desires and look at the big picture....theres a difference if the chick is some random girl and dont got a body...but if she actually stands out in a way and elevates your thinking..it should be a no brainer...and im disappointed in myself for letting something as petty as titties and ass..fukk with me...
im gonna have to work through this ASAP
A lot of times, thick can mean a couple of steps from obese. What happens when super thick mami stops working out and turns into Jabba the Hut? Then you got a woman with a bad personality and a bad body. The woman you're with now, she can work out and get a bit thicker. Quality personality isn't easy to find at all. I guarantee you will regret letting your current woman go once you go chasing for these 'bad hoes'... because when you're down on your luck and need someone to support you, they won't be around. They'll be mingling with the next man.
One of the most important lessons the Bible teaches us is to 'LEARN to be content.' I emphasized the word learn, because you have to work at contentment. You have to learn to overrule your base desires and decide when enough is enough. I guarantee you that once you get that thick chick, you'll get bored of her like everyone else and your mind will start wandering over to what that chick that's thick in a slightly different way is working with. If we never 'learn' to be content, our desires will never be held in check and no matter what, we will always wonder if the grass is greener over here or over there.
If you got a pretty face, personality, morals, then really, you can accept some losses on body, especially if she's slim with it.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
i just paid my tuition. i work, i just don't get paid again till thursday and i ain't bout to dip into my savings for a female who ain't my gal. parents did me dirty on the tuition payment this month and i went ahead and paid my rent off til februay
not takin anything a nikka who looks like the Pillsbury Dough Boy says seriously. My body count easily triple yours fam
On a side note, got 3 numbers this morning at the gym/grocery store and 2 of em approached me. [migos voice] cant believe it [/migos voice]
1) I'm slim so I look nothing like that.
2) why you gotta be negative. We talking women advice and you in here tryna shyt on me like I said something negative to you.
KingTut
Green diamonds like a dill pickle
1) I'm slim so I look nothing like that.
2) why you gotta be negative. We talking women advice and you in here tryna shyt on me like I said something negative to you.
I apologize brotha. Please forgive me
I feel you 100% and I'm the same way, a lot of us are...But I say if you know it now (the bolded) then you'll know it later when/if you fukk it up. Now do you wanna be the stupid nikka who gotta beg for his shorty back after figuring out a creative way to drop her b/c you can't tell her your real intentions? You wanna risk losing shorty over that? Go get some strange, then forever know in the back of your head the bytches w badder bodies for the most part got higher numbers, more emotional baggage, and more relationship issues?
God is so mean
I say this...Figure out what you want at this point in life. If you're ready for wifey, and if you can TRY to not be ruled by your physical desires, keep shorty man. A chick who's really a keeper (especially when others can't see why) is a beautiful thing. But if you think your issue gonna cause you to cheat, or value her less, and you know 100% she's a good chick, don't do it to yourself, or her, breh. shyt just ain't worth it in the long run...And look on the bright side, maybe one day she'll eat her cornbread...Implants do exist. Lol just know that a womans self-image, body issues, and correcting them through surgery can open up a whole nother can of worms
It's crazy man, but that's how life is. There's always a trade-off. You just have to find the package with the trade-offs that are most acceptable to you. When I was young, I thought I was going to find the perfect package in all areas, but that never happened, and realistically, I'm not perfect myself, so how can I expect that from a woman?
Most of the time, these superbad chicks have flawed personalities. Look at how nearly every man Halle Berry has been with went off on her. Rihanna, Evelyn Lozada. A lot of men allow straight poison into their lives because the broad is so fine and they get blinded by those looks. I'm not going to lie... It's tough getting past a woman's looks, because I'm a looks connoisseur myself. It's hard not to make a fine woman into something she isn't, which often is wifey, when she's really a woman of the streets.
Most of these superfine chicks have had their minds warped from a lifetime of simpdom... a lifetime of men never holding them accountable or telling them they were wrong.... a lifetime of men making excuses for their every action. A lifetime of virtually endless choices when it comes to men, all of who are very eager to do their bidding. These type of women grow up in an environment where men are expendable and they never have to work at a relationship. They just have to show up and the man is willing to do all the work to 'earn her'. Thus, she becomes so entitled that she doesn't know how to put anything in in a relationship. Often, when you have two women, there is one that gets less attention than the other one. That's the one I prefer because she's had to work for her attention and she's usually got a more laid-back personality.
I absolutely love a fine woman, but as I get older, I just find that these superfine broads are headaches. They never have to put in any effort, so most of the time they are stingy and their conversations are mediocre because they never had to work for anything. They also often have a big roster of men, so once they get bored of you, they have another guy they can zip to in an instant. Once the looks fade though, the real comes out, and you'll be like, Man, why did I wife her up?
Let me tell you brothas something. Without morals, without respect and without a woman that intensely likes you, you have NOTHING. You might be physically engaged with this or that woman at the moment, but she is just BORROWED property. As soon as she gets bored, she'll be gone... or if she's low moral, she'll be tapping them pockets and leave you the bill for another man's child.
The difference between the choices you make with a woman will be having someone by your side right now who supports you when things get tough, who will raise your kids with morals, who will be in your bed next to you 10 years from now and who will bring you joy on a day to day basis... or it will be loneliness... or it will be endless stress from 'baby momma drama' or pure madness when then woman you thought loved you is flaunting another man in your face.
As you get older, you see that there's very few who will stick around, whether it be women or friends, so the ones you still have around, you better value like gold.
The difference between the choices you make with a woman will be having someone by your side right now who supports you when things get tough, who will raise your kids with morals, who will be in your bed next to you 10 years from now and who will bring you joy on a day to day basis... or it will be loneliness... or it will be endless stress from 'baby momma drama' or pure madness when then woman you thought loved you is flaunting another man in your face.
As you get older, you see that there's very few who will stick around, whether it be women or friends, so the ones you still have around, you better value like gold.
Shameonyou
All Star
how about the situation if the women that have the body also have the personality that matches? that is somewhat the what if factor for me...not even the hoodrats. I feel like i had an opportunity to get one like that classy with morals, and has the body....but i dont wanna risk losing the sure thing now...but yall preachin in here..much needed