are you too dense to see the answer right in front of you?
you're presumably over 16, not being married off to someone you didn't choose, you're employed, possibly with some higher education and at least a modicum of personal independence
you can argue with ideals, misfirings, and ignorances of various waves of feminism, as everyone does, especially feminists, but to just write off the basic underpinnings of feminism as a woman is ridiculously blind
the idea of feminism is not rooted in going out with no shirt or single women adopting 6 kids, it's just that women deserve to make their own choices, for better or for worse. and some of those choices you've probably already made, and are taking for granted, exposes the amusing irony behind you crowing about how feminism has done nothing for you