Random Thought: So Many Things Would Be Obtainable If We Were Supportive

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

We'd have more successful African American if we were more supportive and family oriented

 

[concise]

A lot of white posters on here pretending to be black. The most recent one to get banned was negro the magnificent.

I'm pretty sure he is black, just has a weird style of communicating.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I'm just saying, what's an inch of doubt compared to a mile of dreams y'all


nikka WE MADE IT

 

[Yuzo]

why do you want to go to germany

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

You gotta learn to look at the names of who's posting/saying what and know who's who.

99% of the people who will put you down put everyone down. Some people are just negative to get attention

One thing I learned in life is a person that's really happy isn't going to discourage someone else from being happy unless it conflicts theirs.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

why do you want to go to germany

Want an adventure, learn a language fluently, test myself, etc etc I just want to live breh.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

You gotta learn to look at the names of who's posting/saying what and know who's who.

99% of the people who will put you down put everyone down. Some people are just negative to get attention

One thing I learned in life is a person that's really happy isn't going to discourage someone else from being happy unless it conflicts theirs.

That's true, I think that when it comes to life unhappy people tend to a lot of comparing rather than celebrating, I got that Joel Orsteen yesterday lol

 

[mtu wa chuma]

I posted on a site last night asking about tips for moving to Germany. A girl responded, lightly discouraging me because of the "hassle", while a guy responded to me in a rude manner, undermining me. Simply I told him: "if your intentions are to be a prick, then why even open your mouth, let alone waste the energy."

But, that brought me back to this forum, considering that majority of the posters here are black and preach "black excellence" yet we discourage each other on a daily basis.

An example being, yesterday when a poster talked about traveling alone everyone was calling the dude a 'loser' and all kinds of other things.

Ideally if you believe in the welfare of African Americans then you should encourage one another to expand their horizons.

On a side note: has anyone ever discouraged you from pursuing dreams or goals? If so then you need to realize that only you can tell yourself 'no'.

Y'all know a nikka like me gotta freebandz spoil myself.

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