A lot of women be talking about love, but they got a lot of requirements. They want their man to be a certain height, certain weight, certain salary, etc etc. Whatever happened to love at first sight? Love being blind? Or singing to your girl outside her window? Love letters? It seems that women are very calculating in who they fall in "love" with, sh*t seems kind of off to me. Speak on it.
Real talk, do women actually believe in love?
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When you're starting to see a negative pattern in women (or men), you should start looking for other types/views of women (or men). That may open your eyes up a bit
Never seen this. Never.
Based off what I seen they always end up blindly in 'love' with a character vastly different than the educated proper gentleman they usually tell the world is their perfect mate
When you're starting to see a negative pattern in women (or men), you should start looking for other types/views of women (or men). That may open your eyes up a bit
It's not a negative pattern I'm seeing, just smokin' up a bit and was just chattin' with a migo. When's the last time outside of grade school you've seen a true love experience. Like, dude be simpin' a chick, and she be like
. Usually the guy is paid, good lookin', athlete etc for the chick to be Most chicks I know look at the men like 
or 
real talk, I think 99% of chicks have a guy they just settled for because he met their requirements, not no real "I was walking down the street and fell in love" type steez. Women are the biggest proponents of love, but everything I see in real life leads me to believe they are selling snake oil. You be like "she loves me" and she be like 
"thank God I finally got a decent dude who ain't broke" 
. Women approach relationships like skilled birds of prey, and we the innocent rodents thinking it's all good 
I feel you, but I have NEVER seen blind love. I've seen bad boy "love", but not like a dimepiece who just thought the 5'4" nerd was so sweet and caring and said that's my guy
I've only seen blind love on the side of dudes, you see a guy with a chick who would probably let a dog f*ck, and he be like "that's my girl" just because she got some good p*ss and sh*t. True love like is shown in Hollywood is a myth. There's only passion and acceptance.
And men will pass up a good natured woman for a predator because she has a phat ass. That's why people stay complaining. They can't see past material things or getting instant gratification through what they deem attractive.It's not a negative pattern I'm seeing, just smokin' up a bit and was just chattin' with a migo. When's the last time outside of grade school you've seen a true love experience. Like, dude be simpin' a chick, and she be like
Bottom line, is not all women or men are the same. You can't completely generalize. Expand horizons, you might be surprised that you see something different than what you thought was fact.
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They only believe in love when the guy is incredibly good looking just like they see in the movies
Women will only ever love your looks and your money, NEVER YOU
Women will only ever love your looks and your money, NEVER YOU
The types women fall for are usually the types they are blindsighted by.
Give them their prototype and I bet they'll get bored and cheat with a breh who's 'different' and has a swagger to him.
But @blackzeus you probably talking an older game where women are looking for financial stability and are settling for that 'decent' dude. The women my age aren't doing that yet
Give them their prototype and I bet they'll get bored and cheat with a breh who's 'different' and has a swagger to him.
But @blackzeus you probably talking an older game where women are looking for financial stability and are settling for that 'decent' dude. The women my age aren't doing that yet
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I do....I want exactly what my parents have...so I try to look for traits closes to what my father has...hard working, giving, kind, loyal to family ect.
edit: I didn't fully answer the OP....it seems like you are getting real love confused with love in movies
edit: I didn't fully answer the OP....it seems like you are getting real love confused with love in movies
I hear you, but we already know men are dogs, that wasn't the point of the thread
The question is do women REALLY believe in love. Or do they only fall in "love" when their requirements are met. Again, I have NEVER seen blind love on the side of the woman. I regular see dudes with 4s or 3s because they get a special "feeling" with them I have never seen a true dime bish with some crusty azz fat buster because he makes her smile and feel loved
You need to get out more. Happens more than you thinkI hear you, but we already know men are dogs, that wasn't the point of the thread
The types women fall for are usually the types they are blindsighted by.
Give them their prototype and I bet they'll get bored and cheat with a breh who's 'different' and has a swagger to him.
But @blackzeus you probably talking an older game where women are looking for financial stability and are settling for that 'decent' dude. The women my age aren't doing that yet
Breh, up until about the 5th-6th grade, I'll admit that girls do have boys they like off the cuff for random reasons or for no reason at all, which to me is the true definition of love. Again, per the thread title, do WOMEN (high school graduates and older) REALLY believe in love? Have you ever met a non-religious woman who fell in love with a guy WAY out of her league financially, physically, and socially because he made her feel good? I'm talking Kevin James "Hitch" type sh*t. That sh*t don't exist in real life. Women only love the guys who fit what they want in one way or another, that's not love, that's acceptance.
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A guy can do all that and not put a sparkle in your eye, not give you roses everyday, not put a tingle in your spine when he touches you, etc etc. Your post is my point exactly, you have your requirements, and you need them to be fulfilled, that's not love, because love is blind my friend. Nothing wrong with having requirements and standards, but thinking about it in my current state of mind, that's not really love.
You need to get out more. Happens more than you think
I'm overseas right now breh, I get out in 4 continents.
It's the same everywhere, bishes have requirements. You meet them, they fall in "love" ( )