Red flag or nah?

[karim]

Basically, my boys wife set me up with one of her friends.

They invited me for a celebration and suggested to go to a bar. So I go there and her friend is already sitting at the table they reserved. We talk and after about an hour, I get a text that my boy and his wife can't make it (with a bullshyt excuse). I stay out of politeness and we have a nice evening.

She's cute and we had a good conversation, but I just didn't like how they went about this. I'm not even sure the friend was involved, but I suspect she was because we didn't exchanged numbers and a couple of days later she hit me up and asked if I wanted to go out for drinks. Not sure how i should feel about this

 

[Saiyajin]

just fukk her

 

[karim]

just fukk her

in order to then get the from my boys wife for pumping and dumping

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

Don't over think it. Meet up with him her again and find out for yourself if she worth your time. Sounds like she might be desperate though. Should be an easy hit.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

You basically got hooked up without having to do shyt. Whats the issue?

 

[Matt504]

Sound like they're trying to get rid of you, this is most likely the wife's plan because you come over to play x-box too much.

 

[GreenGrass]

sounds like a blind date..

 

[audemarzz]

Feel? Did you enjoy the date? You text her back and meet up again. . . Or you can chill with us on thecoli

 

[The ADD]

Shady but the key thing is to take control of the direction of the ship. If you don't do that right now, fukkery will ensue

 

[Astroslik]

What the fukk is the problem dumb nikka

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

You basically got hooked up without having to do shyt. Whats the issue?

Should be thanking his homie:yup:

 

[Address_Unknown]

in order to then get the from my boys wife for pumping and dumping

Feign ignorance the same way they prolly feigning the fact that they set y'all up like y'all in a Rom com.
Turn that shyt into a real life drama by doing what you do, B.
But outside of the fukk shyt they do, If you and homegirl getting along good enough together, do not look a gift horse in the mouth...or something.

 

[GotEmShook]

I'm lost...so whats the issue?

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Should be thanking his homie:yup:

nikkas complain about meeting women all day on here and he has a cute one fall right in his lap and doesn't kno what to do

 

[Mowgli]

Basically, my boys wife set me up with one of her friends.

They invited me for a celebration and suggested to go to a bar. So I go there and her friend is already sitting at the table they reserved. We talk and after about an hour, I get a text that my boy and his wife can't make it (with a bullshyt excuse). I stay out of politeness and we have a nice evening.

She's cute and we had a good conversation, but I just didn't like how they went about this. I'm not even sure the friend was involved, but I suspect she was because we didn't exchanged numbers and a couple of days later she hit me up and asked if I wanted to go out for drinks. Not sure how i should feel about this

She can't be that hot because you don't sound excited.

My friends tried to hook me up with a girl that had herpes. The girl told me herself thankfully before we made any physical contact. I confronted my boys girl about it and she was like


"Well she takes medicine for that"

I about booted her grill.

If you have any history of jealousy or competitiveness with your homies and or if he's p*ssy whipped by his lady, you may want to make sure she's clean or free of mental illness.

Do a little recon before you hop In Bed because women that like to drink at bars 2 dates in a row are usually sluts. That's a red flag to me