ReinScarf lied. The real reason for all them divorces is because most American men are boring.

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Your interest in this subject is appreciated and I am glad that we have the Bible as our source book to tell us what God expected of the wife in the marriage relationship. There are several verses in Ephesians, the fifth chapter that you should read, beginning with verse 22. Let me read only three of these for you. Verse 22, "Wives submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord". Then verse 24, "Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything". Then verse 33, "nevertheless let everyone of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband". Then in I Peter 3:1, "Like wise you wives, be in subjection to your own husbands".

None of these passages teach that women are inferior in intellect, but that her feminine qualities preclude her being as well endowed for leadership. The subjection does not mean servitude. It is not the relationship of master and slave or as a maid or servant. Hers is a recognition of the husband's leadership, wisdom and tenderness. He should be as loving toward her as Christ loved the church.

At this point, there are several privileges that belong to the wife. For instance, she is to be loved like Christ loved the church as commanded in Ephesians 5:25. She is to be honored as none other in I Peter 3:7, and she is to be praised by her family, Pro. 31:28. In Titus 2:4 we read, "That (the aged women) may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed". Here is a fine list of the responsibilities of the wife. All of these are important, but let us just dwell on four of these.

"To love their husbands" is a command. Too often this is equated by men to believe it is only a sexual relationship and in the mind of some women, that is all they think they are good for. To love your husband means that you are a partner with him, working together toward a common goal. Then you can be appreciative of his actions, efforts and work in supporting the family. You will do all that you possibly can to see that they are comfortable and happy when they come home.

"To love their children", is another command. As men provide for the family financially, mothers s tay home and rear the children. This might often be considered a thankless job. This is an area in which you can excel. As he earns the living and supports the family, you take care of the children while he is gone to work and make the house comfortable by keeping it pleasant and enjoyable. Yes, children can become exasperating at times, but remember, they are children who are still developing and learning. They need that sober guiding hand of the mature mother who lets them know that they are the objects of her love and concern.

"To be obedient to their own husband" points out the closeness of the two." This is not indicating that You can't and do not have any thoughts of your own The idea is that as husband and wife work together and that you are not constantly pulling in an opposite direction. This obedience does not mean that you are a slave or an indentured servant, but rather that you are sharing a mutual goal. The harshness of the word obedient is tempered by the display of love and affection that the husband shows his wife. "To be keepers at home" is a command that indicates a divided responsibility. His job seems to be to go out and earn the living and provide for his family while she looks after the home. Even though a wife does not work outside of the home in what we call public work, she is still vital to the income of the family. Hers is a non-income producing activity, but it is still vitally important to the overall success of the family.

When God created woman, she was taken from the rib of man as is described in Genesis. She was not taken from his foot that she might be crushed underneath his heel in bitterness. Neither was she taken from his head so that she might rule over him. She was not taken from the hand so that she might continually fill the position of waiting upon him. She was taken from the rib on man that she might be by his side continually. She is to be loved and is to respond as a part of his body. Husbands and wives are a part of each other. Let me call your attention to the Old Testament in which the writer Solomon describes a worthy woman. It is Proverbs 31:10-31. (Read). These verses quite explicitly give us God's view of a wife and mother.
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This brother has enlightened us with precious jewels from the word of God:ohlawd: I felt like I'm in church reading this post:whew:
 
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havoc said:
This brother has enlightened us with precious jewels from the word of God:ohlawd: I felt like I'm in church reading this post:whew:
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God bless the honorable skeetsinternal:mjcry:...unfortunately feminists will continue to ignore the principles of God only to further push the destruction of families and households that we CLEARLY see going on right now :mjcry:....let's not even talk about the education system after prayer was taken away from that....now you got all schools where 80% of the student body is lesbians :mjcry:....I can keep going but ill stop there :mjcry:
 
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All this does is prove that people get married to the wrong people for the wrong fukking reasons.....you don't get bored of a person you have a real connection with. That moment where you feel like the same person in two bodies....
 
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LMAO! and i have to agree that men are pretty boring for the most part. They don't do shyt and don't want to do shyt.
 
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Emperor_ReinScarf said:
the three f's
finances, falling out of love and facebook
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Rawtid said:
LMAO! and i have to agree that men are pretty boring for the most part. They don't do shyt and don't want to do shyt.
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I tell my Wife this at least once a month (she's not American) to remind her about the differences in gender.

Women all they want to do is go out and eat, SEE AND BE SEEN BY OTHERS, they like drama I'm like then bytch watch a dramedy on Netflix or other site. Women always gotta be socializing and gossipping. Save that shyt for your girlfriends and a girls night out.

When I come home from work I want to CHILL AND RELAX. I am not 21 years old I will be 30 in a year. I am well traveled in college I don't have the travel bug anymore. We just came from Japan in May to visit her family and have the official marriage ceremony there. She is talking about let's go to Hawaii, France or Dominican Republic. bytch we just came from somewhere. Then she said "Oh yeah" and realized that :hamster: is spinning. Women are Women no matter the culture but there are DEGREES to this shyt and American Women are about 100-1000x worse in this regard. Japanese Women are some of the most level headed that is all I can deal with. If you tell them something they will take a step back and actually :dwillhuh: reflect on their actions. An American Woman will just look at you like this :comeon: in one ear out the other....Anything logic related she not hearing you.

Women like to think about what they want to do first and then ask questions about how they are gonna do it later. They think "money grow on trees" as my Father used to say to me when I was younger. She keeps asking me sometime to do a Wedding Anniversary party. I am like Woman we have to save up $5,000 for Japan next year that is not happening. Priorities. Her Brother Minoru gave us close to $1k as a Wedding gift. :myman: Half of that money was returned to her parents to help pay for the Wedding costs (~$3k for traditional ceremony in total) See, Men are practical and realistic. Negro to Japan Negro he knows there was a lot of financial sacrifice to get over there. A woman would have game some dumb useless shyt of the equivalent value that you couldn't even sell for cash, like a piece of furniture. bytch we need money for bills not furniture to invite people over and gobble up all our food.:why:

I don't understand why Women are so restless and always have to socialize, and be doing shyt 24/7. It's not just a CAC thing either. But most "Weekend Warriors" I know are CACs though at least in the NYC area. (And Asian dudes and bytches born here that think they are CAC.) :heh:
 
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I tell my Wife this at least once a month (she's not American) to remind her about the differences in gender.

Women all they want to do is go out and eat, SEE AND BE SEEN BY OTHERS, they like drama I'm like then bytch watch a dramedy on Netflix or other site. Women always gotta be socializing and gossipping. Save that shyt for your girlfriends and a girls night out.

When I come home from work I want to CHILL AND RELAX. I am not 21 years old I will be 30 in a year. I am well traveled in college I don't have the travel bug anymore. We just came from Japan in May to visit her family and have the official marriage ceremony there. She is talking about let's go to Hawaii, France or Dominican Republic. bytch we just came from somewhere. Then she said "Oh yeah" and realized that :hamster: is spinning. Women are Women no matter the culture but there are DEGREES to this shyt and American Women are about 100-1000x worse in this regard. Japanese Women are some of the most level headed that is all I can deal with. If you tell them something they will take a step back and actually :dwillhuh: reflect on their actions. An American Woman will just look at you like this :comeon: in one ear out the other....Anything logic related she not hearing you.

Women like to think about what they want to do first and then ask questions about how they are gonna do it later. They think "money grow on trees" as my Father used to say to me when I was younger. She keeps asking me sometime to do a Wedding Anniversary party. I am like Woman we have to save up $5,000 for Japan next year that is not happening. Priorities. Her Brother Minoru gave us close to $1k as a Wedding gift. :myman: Half of that money was returned to her parents to help pay for the Wedding costs (~$3k for traditional ceremony in total) See, Men are practical and realistic. Negro to Japan Negro he knows there was a lot of financial sacrifice to get over there. A woman would have game some dumb useless shyt of the equivalent value that you couldn't even sell for cash, like a piece of furniture. bytch we need money for bills not furniture to invite people over and gobble up all our food.:why:

I don't understand why Women are so restless and always have to socialize, and be doing shyt 24/7. It's not just a CAC thing either. But most "Weekend Warriors" I know are CACs though at least in the NYC area. (And Asian dudes and bytches born here that think they are CAC.) :heh:
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Simple, just don't wife an extroverted broad.
 
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its because women want a paycheck and when the divorce is done theyll get a newer younger man
 
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