Relationship with a "thirst trap"

[ThadudeK9]

If you were in a comimitted relationship/ married and eventually found out your girl was a thirst trap or tease( I.e. Wanting attention by portraying sexual energy through pics & and flirtatious statements) how would you react?

To me it's suspect! I don't understand females tht are in committed relationships and do this... Idk maybe I'm thinking too much into it.

....thoughts?

 

[aXiom]

Thots gonna thot regardless of their relationship status.

 

[Ohene]

wouldn't have wifed her in the first place. yall gon realize eventually its only like 20% of these hoes that are worth wifing. fukk and duck the rest of em.

 

[ThadudeK9]

I'm just noticing this everywhere nowadays. On FB,IG, and especially on here. I just don't understand why be in a relatioship and seek attention outside of it.
Is this a new norm due to th impact of social media?

 

[Chris.B]

hoes will always hoe...they aint changing because they are in a relationship.

Deal with it or find you a new woman.

 

[Matt504]

I'm just noticing this everywhere nowadays. On FB,IG, and especially on here. I just don't understand why be in a relatioship and seek attention outside of it.
Is this a new norm due to th impact of social media?

those same people are only in relationships FOR social media. they need someone to use to make others jealous and increase their perceived value, they need someone to try to sleep with them behind their mans back, how else will she know she's wanted, especially if she's only averaging 40 likes per picture, she sees the other thots averaging 100 and it makes her feel like something is wrong with her.

"maybe I should wear these booty shorts with no bra and cover my breast with my arm, then put a filter on it and call it art, that should get me the likes I need to survive"

 

[ThadudeK9]

those same people are only in relationships FOR social media. they need someone to use to make others jealous and increase their perceived value, they need someone to try to sleep with them behind their mans back, how else will she know she's wanted, especially if she's only averaging 40 likes per picture, she sees the other thots averaging 100 and it makes her feel like something is wrong with her.

"maybe I should wear these booty shorts with no bra and cover my breast with my arm, then put a filter on it and call it art, that should get me the likes I need to survive"

They also are probably the ones tht see it for "entirtanment" and not disrespect to th relationship.

 

[ThadudeK9]

Need some female input

@Milk N Cookies @TheFemalePerspective @BonitaChelz
I'm new in here,and you ladies seem to always keep it real. Why's your thoughts?

 

[no.]

It's natural for people to like having their ego stroked, being told they are fine, simped after -- it feeds their ego, gives them confidence.

Now if a girl needs her looks constantly complimented by strangers, it's either 1) she's insecure and has low self-esteem 2) she's playing the field and looking at other guys or 3) her boyfriend doesn't make her feel appreciated.

 

[baracka zulu]

I'm still flummoxed at the number of nikkaz outchea who still ain't got the "these hoes ain't loyal" memo.

 

[MikelArteta]

Can you tame a hyena and have it as a pet?

If your wifing some Instagram chick with 5,000 followers page full of booty and cleavage shots, Facebook filled with friends with names like rayvon moneybagg$ then you already lost!!!!!

Hos will be hos, a chick whose currency is attention is not going to change for you.

You'll be pinned as jealous and insecure

Stop making your life so difficult brehs.

 

[LvrdSteez]

Wouldn't care......I'm fukking and they looking at pictures

 

[Silkk]

Cancel That bytch

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Need some female input

@Milk N Cookies @TheFemalePerspective @BonitaChelz
I'm new in here,and you ladies seem to always keep it real. Why's your thoughts?

I think it can be suspicious behavior and I would talk to her about it especially since it can be perceived as disrespectful. However, if chick is displaying attention whoring ways in the very beginning, and you fail to address it, but instead you wife her.... That's the L you take.

 

[Smoke]

Hoes gon ho