Relatives/Family members asking to live with you?

[KingMalik]

My cousin just asked me if he could stay at my place. I got a 1 bedroom

Homie don't got no job. Has 2 kids. Keeps talking about going back to school (he dropped out) but hasn't done a lick of anything for 3 years. He would definitely be cramping my space

I feel like an azzhole because he's essentially homeless but I really have no desire to deal with this nikka

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

Where his baby mom

 

[KingMalik]

Where his baby mom

Living with her sister. Her family doesn't want to deal with him because theyre upset he's unemployed when they have 2 kids

 

[Pyrexcup]

no job has two kids and does nothing

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

But if the rolls were reversed it'd be different

 

[Sassy]

Personally i wouldn't...though i would feel bad but still.

 

[frush11]

Put him up, but demand he gets a job, or he's out

 

[the cac mamba]

if you do, give him a hard one month deadline or somethin thats more than fair

or just tell him to fukk off i mean would these kids be movin in too? that sounds awful

 

[Vandelay]

Make him pay rent and lay down some serious ground rules

 

[Pyrexcup]

Put him up, but demand he gets a job, or he's out

expect a man who has not be doing anything for the past 3 years to suddenly get a job brehs. I dont know how close you are with your cousin op but if he has to come to you as a last resort there probably is a reason why

 

[KingMalik]

expect a man who has not be doing anything for the past 3 years to suddenly get a job brehs. I dont know how close you are with your cousin op but if he has to come to you as a last resort there probably is a reason why

There's a reason I used to live two hours away from my family. I just had to come back

 

[frush11]

expect a man who has not be doing anything for the past 3 years to suddenly get a job brehs. I dont know how close you are with your cousin op but if he has to come to you as a last resort there probably is a reason why

Yeah i know, but its family

 

[Reid2Achieve]

I would give him some serious ground rules, and every week I would want updates on his job search.

Does he have a car or any money at all? Any form of public transportation?

And where are his parents?

I would probably steer the nikka towards the military to get his life in order before he start slanging dope and get caught up in the system.

 

[KingMalik]

I would give him some serious ground rules, and every week I would want updates on his job search.

Does he have a car or any money at all? Any form of public transportation?

And where are his parents?

I would probably steer the nikka towards the military to get his life in order before he start slanging dope and get caught up in the system.

His dad upset with him for dropping out of college and having 2 kids in 3 years. They not on speaking terms.

His mom, my aunt, lives with a friend because she lost her job. She can't really help him. My mom and my step-pop have the room but were like My cousin exhausted all his options because people are sick of him not getting a job.

 

[Kal El]

Co-sign the posters saying to set some firm rules before he stays over.

Couldn't have it on my conscience if I just flat out told family "naw". If he breaks your rules, . At least you can say you tried.