Relatives/Family members asking to live with you?

[humble Hermit]

If you can help, do it. I know you said he hasn't worked the past 3 years but does he have ambition? The man is at least a father. If you can help him find work or someway of getting back to his feet, you would not only help him, but his kids as well. It seems like you care enough that you wrote this.

 

[DatBoiHawk]

Do that nikka like Martin did Cole. It's a Saturday, give him til Monday to get his shyt together lol

 

[Sierra Mist]

I've done it before 3 years ago. Baby moms kicked my cousin out. Felt bad for him because he had literally no where to stay and all his belongings were on the curb in the rain when I got there. I was like the last and only option. Ended up staying with me for 8 weeks but I couldn't take it anymore. Sent him back to live with his babymoms. I like my peace too much.

 

[Deaf2twothirds]

If he's not like a brother to you then don't do it

 

[Reid2Achieve]

His dad upset with him for dropping out of college and having 2 kids in 3 years. They not on speaking terms.

His mom, my aunt, lives with a friend because she lost her job. She can't really help him. My mom and my step-pop have the room but were like My cousin exhausted all his options because people are sick of him not getting a job.

Man he got mouths to feed, no relevant work history, and is a college dropout. It sounds like he just a bum ass leech. Tell that man to hit up a military recruiter. He will get a direction in life, steady income, benefits, and can finish school. Don't give him handouts if his immediate fam ain't even fukking with him.

 

[Trill McClay]

You gotta good heart OP, but you got to tell fam he needs to get a job. Even if he is not paying rent/bills, he needs to be supporting his kids financially.

 

[TRFG]

You lost for even entertaining the idea

 

[live it to the limit]

I live by myself in a 2 bedroom. I'm always terrified about this happening. Not that I don't like my family but, having your own space is goat

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Let him use your computer so he can google a list of shelters in the area

 

[calixprynce]

Tell that man to get on a corner or sumn
I cant imagine having 2 kids and not grindin for em

 

[MostHatedBox]

I live by myself in a 2 bedroom. I'm always terrified about this happening. Not that I don't like my family but, having your own space is goat

I feel the exact same way and it just happened to me

Just moved into my 2 bedroom 1 bathroom beginning of August with my girl. My cousin (who I am close like brothers with) is in college and his roommates did him foul and found another place without him so he has been staying at my place. Literally only got 1 month of the apartment to myself before family needed to stay with me


He has a job even though he constantly complains about it and always wants to call out

He has pets but I refuse to let no dog fukk my new apartment up so I made him find another place for them. Mainly because that was the reason his roommates dipped on him cause the dog was shytting everywhere and fukking things up.

Its been almost a month so far and im wondering....

How long would yall give someone to get on their feet Coli brehs?

 

[Ricky Fontaine]

DO. NOT. DO. IT.

Had this same scenario almost exactly.

Now, if I found out the nikka got hit by a bus today I would celebrate with a steak dinner.